How can i get over someone who uses me?

hi,i have a crush on this guy who is 23 years old and i am 20 years old its been going on for a year and three months and we were fine like we were friends before he used me because his parents divorced and he broke up with his ex girlfriend,and whenever...

hes confused or bored he comes to me and whenever hes not confused he ignores me.So what do u think i should do,Do u think i should and make realize what he did?I mean i tried to ignore him but it didnt work.The other day i told i gave him a chance and he blew it and he agreed with me but i dont know if hes serious.And i dont if hes serious or kidding around he said we should get married i was shocked but i think hes kidding around since i think he likes me as a friend.thanks

i say just screw him.. dont show him u care move on. or at least pretend too. if he does have feelings for you he will come around when he realizes he cant use you anymore. it seems like he really relys on you.. but only when he has no one else to go to. if ur going to be a good friend to him and comfort him whenever he needs it then dont get ur emotions mixed up.