How to get over relationship trouble?

Well, last night, I had some terrible things happen to me since I've been in a long distance relationship with a man from Alabama.
Ever since then, I've been also talking to another man I met in college. Well, this other man is from the same state of...

Michigan where I'm from and him and I have known each other since 2007 and That's about how long I've known the current man. The college student such as my self and I were hanging out together since he's going to be leaving for Alaska in 2 days and we really care for each other since we've known each other. We changed our status on facebook and when I told the other man that's from Alabama, he exploded with me and, thought he did something wrong since I wasn't answering his phone calls yesterday since I was talking to the other person.
I've been feeling pretty guilty since I started accuseing the Southerner for seeing other women and drinking since he says he doesn't drink. Then, I was crying to the point where I even made myself sick because of what I've done. He told me, When you keep something from me, you're lying Then I said No, its not lying Then he says, Yes it is Then he thought I was using him and everything. He doesn't seem to understand that I broke it off with the other person that's in college such as myself.
I don't know what to do anymore since I feel like wanting to do something that's either life threatening, or simply disappear. I'm sick and tired of being called a liar and a user. I just need some advice as to what to do when it comes to the 2 men. Should I give the southern man another chance? Or, should I continue to pursue the other man?
Your thoughts and opinions would be great.
Thanks

WOW! Long distances are hard work and barely ever work! You have to go with your gut but you also should choose since your feeling this way... But if the other guy is going to Alaska than whats the point in trying to pursue either of them??