How to get my wife back?

She needs the relattionship because of our baby but she doesn`t like to live with me , I phicically abused her and apologised many times to her and her parents.

I dont think there is a way because you phsyical Abused her...She might not like living with a guy like you but I wouldnt neither. I dont think you can get her back. Try to change. thats all you can do is try.

well I wouldnt want to be with you either... I've been abused and it really hurts... but if you want to try you should go to counciling and let her know... thats all you can do

Dear shantha,
Are you in counselling? If not then there isn't anyway that she is going to take your apology seriously. You cannot change the thinking of someone else you can only change yourself. So it's obvious she isn't ready to believe you are going to be there for her, support her, love her and never to abuse her or your child. This is a very tall order for someone who has already committed domestic assault. She must fear for the child...so actions speak louder then words. Leave her be, go get counselling and perhaps you will still be able to have a relationship with your child.
Sue...good luck