How to get my vagina to loosen?

I need my vigina to loosen but it wont and me nor my boy friend can get any thing in there not even a finger?
what are ways to make it loosen?

Wait until your body is actually done growing! Your only 14 years old. If somethings not working, dont try to keep forcing it! Inexperience has a lot to do with problems. Education is the key, and so is maturity!

it's a major sign you aren't ready to have sex yet, your body isn't reasy and doesn't want anything penetrating you. So sit back relax and try and rethink if you should be forcing your body to do things it doesn't want. Reorganize your priorities and you may see that now is not the time for you. After all your virginity is a very precious thing that you'll want to give to the person you love the most, and I bet you a million dollars that in a year or two when you aren't with this guy anymore you will be regretting giving it to him and wishing you could give it to someone else. So wait a bit have some virginal fun and leave having sex for the future. Your body is a temple, so treat it like one.

THIS IS A VERY CRAZY QUESTION BUT FIRST OF ALL WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO EVEN BE DOING STUFF LIKE THAT AT 14 DOES YOUR PARENTS KNOW ABOUT THIS MY LORD. WAIT TILL YOUR MARRIED AND IT MIGHT OPEN UP.

ahh...
dont do a thing if you aint got that ring. geeze

Let me tap it, I'll stretch it so you can put your hand, fingers, and even your thumb in it.

ha ha your so funny Jamray1991

Wow that's sick jamray1991.

As for you cleo... you are way to young to have sex, how about you grow up first.