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How to break up with my girlfriend with out hurting her feelings

Asked by cj over 4 years ago, 11 answers.

My girlfriend and I are dating. I want to break up with my girlfriend but I dont know how to tell her that, I cant find the right words. Sometimes I tell her things that I dont mean because I want her to break up with her, but it dont work. She really...

likes me I did but I just want to move on. Shes a sweet girlfriend but I just dont have the same feeling for her like before what should I do or say to break up with her. I dont want to make her upset or to cry over me like last time. Before, I tried to break up with her by not saying sweet things to her and being harsh in words. She felt bad so I apologized. Now we are still dating and I just want to date other girls. She cheatd on me with one of my friends I know she did I saw her but she denies it I know shes not worth it anyway it has nothing to do why I want to break up with her it does a little but I just dont like her as much as before.

Thanks

Answered by xvballx on Jan 11, 2005, 07:46PM

there really is know easy eay of breaking up with someone. no matter what someone always gets hurts. i would tell her that u wanna see other people. just say that u two could still be friends and stuff like that and don#039;t try to avoid it the sooner u do it the better.

Answered by jessycaerin on Jan 13, 2005, 12:14PM

breaking up with someone isbt easy its going to hurt her no matter what you do but just tell her you want to see other ppl but she is a sweet beautiful girl you just arent ready to be in a relationship and tell her you want to still be friends but do that still be her friend lots of times people tend to say quot;lets be friendsquot; and they arent you have to be willing to be there for her and help her when she needs you and if your not dont tell her you want to remain friends just be careful and try to compliment her while you are breaking up with her i know it seems weird but it help like saying quot;you are one of the sweetest most beautiful girls ive ever met, but i need my space i need to date other people. Your such a wonderful person n i still want to be your friends .... i hope you understandquot;

Answered by bigandbrown112 on Feb 12, 2009, 10:32PM

holy shizz all you guys are retards!!! you never say lets just be friends its a death sentence!!! just be sincere... or learn to fake it! look them in the eyes and tel them that you are always gonna care bout them but you dont feel like the relationship is going to workout and you think she deserves better than a half assed boyfriend... make yourself look bad and emphasize the fact that you still care about her in case you wanna get back with her always leave that door open...

Answered by kangaroo6464 on Jul 26, 2009, 06:58PM

she cheated on u... with one of your friends... then lied about it... when you saw it... and yet you say shes sweet?
I actuallly have the same EXACT problem eccept I no she didnt cheat on me and she really is a really nice girl... same Exact problem to the letter exept the last time I broke up with her we broke up for like 7 months.
OK I need help with it tooo =[ she really cried when I broke up with her and I dont that to happen again and I see her everyday in school! It would get really awkward! Some one please help me too.

Boston (: Answered by barbiegirl2023 on Aug 14, 2009, 07:56PM
8 answers

Okay no easy to put it just be blunt about it bell her how you really feel now. Simple as that it's always coin to hurt but yeah the let's be friends thing really bad line!

Answered by daemon_21 on Sep 07, 2009, 07:18AM

I have this problem.. when I asked her to be my girl,sure I loved her.. but after like months? it was gone.. and now I think she's really into me.. how could I break up with her without hurting her that bad?? =( I really dont know and I feel abit guilty about me doing this T_T

Answered by rogerlew on Sep 10, 2009, 07:49AM

Aiks...I am now having the same problem. I want to break up with her.But she don't want. I told her I have bad temper, she know about it. Almost quarrel 3 to 4 times a week. I don't like her ask me more question. But she like to ask this and that. So irritating. Now I said I want to be lonely and think for my future, but she said she don't want to loss me. Some more, when I say break, she get crazy. Shout in the road site and walk alone in the dark street. Make me cannot leave her alone. Afraid she will commit suicide...

Can anyone help me...HELP...SOS

Answered by italiangirlsm on Oct 10, 2009, 05:49PM

way #1 break up with her...then she will tell her friedns and her friends will comfert her...but dont break up with her in a mean way... way #2 just try to avoid her somehow and when she txts or calls you try to answer with one word or two words...then there will be nothing to talk about and she will get bored with you then she will break up with u

Answered by mybitchgonecrazy on Oct 12, 2009, 07:25PM

haha, man I've been going out with my girlfriend for like 1year and 7 months now and the last 7months I've wanted to break up with her cause im young and way to young to just have a 1 girl relationship forever but her parents met in year 10 I think and they are toether for like 20odd years now so she has some waked out idear that we can do it to. BUT I DONT WANT TO (HELL.PPP)

Answered by aldenb4610 on Oct 12, 2009, 08:55PM

Holy crap so lemme get this straight in my efforts to be fair and not to pushy by not talking a whole lot that makes her upset $### I messed up uh also I've got a date w/her this sat and she says she wants to make out A: any movie suggestions and B: I've only kissed once before and it was her uh any tips on making out hopfully she will tell me but just in case I have asked here please post before this sat

Answered by scum on Nov 17, 2009, 01:53PM

Well I'm not sure there's any easy way. I told my ex of 4 years that I was having feelings for my boss who was a man. She dumped me.

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