How to be laidback?

how do you not be uptight.

I didnt think I was uptight. but then someone told me I was (on facebook Define Me thing haha... yeah) but anyway... I hate being told that I worry and am uptight.

because I dont like worrying.

how do I be more a layed back person and not care about anything and never worry?

nice chris123...nice...wise crack answer.

well, that is what someone told you correct?
that's not what you think that you are like?

you never had a problem with this before, you were fine with yourself.

I say don't listen to what other people say, Be what you want to be, and do what you want to do.

You took the time to ask this question. That's how not laid back you are.

hey I used to worry about things a lot and then I just was walking around one day and I saw this book and I never actually read the book, but I read the title of it and ever since then it seemed to help me. the book is called "Don't sweat the small stuff... And it's ALL small stuff ". So basically what that means to me is that it's not worth your time and energy to worry yourself to death about small details because no matter how hard you try, nothing is ever going to turn out completely perfect. So what I'm saying is, if it's too hard, then it's not worth doing. No, I'm joking, I just mean, focus your energy on the things that really matter, if you spread yourself around too much worrying about every little thing, then the important things will fall apart. So you have to figure out what is really important to you, and then just focus on those things and don't concern yourself with trivial matters.

um don't be a poser just be yourself.

but if you're really that desperate.. light up that ganja

It's the little things that bother us because they stick. The big things are heavy enough to roll off because of their own weight. Just forget about others views of you, you can't change them you can only change yourself.