How to be almost perfect person or w.e pls pls pls give me advice:<

I'm Iike, a Ioner a Ioser w,e,. And IateIy things happened so that peopIe kinda Ieft me,. And now I c ry very easiIy, and I'm aImost aIways sad,. I need to know wht to do to have peopIe Iike me,. I'm wiIIin to channge me 4 it,. dont say dont change who...

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Find other people like you and try to fit in with them if not join some sports teams. Do something to get involved with other kids just kindof go along with how those people act. Dont try to stand out at first if your afraid of rejection. Pretty much mimic everyone in that group.

Try to be the sort of friend that you would want to have. Would you rather have a friend who makes you laugh, thinks of fun stuff to do with you, and who will take your side when you need it or a friend who is complaining and whining and isn't very fun and never has any suggestions of what to do and always expects you to bring the fun to the party?

Things are never as bad as they seem. I know that is exactly what you don't want to hear right now, but it's the truth.

Remember, people see you as you see yourself. So if you see yourself as a loser/ loner, then you are projecting those sad empty feelings and basically telling people up front to not be friends with you.

So, basically, just be yourself and live life to the fullest. I promise, if you start realizing that you are a great person and start caring more about yourself, then everyone will notice your new found confidence and realize what they are missing.

If you ever need to talk, feel free to funmail me.
Sam

I used to be the unny one who Iwys mkes ppI smiIe, and I don't know and e one new, I Iive in smII town, and I did everythin 4 my riends,. I hve no cIue wht hppened

People are inherently self-centred ans selfish anyway. Concentrate on making yourself happy first, doing things that you like, changing your style etc. Then join some clubs that interest you or go out on the town when you're confident enough. Remember, only YOU can make you happy, no-one else. Friends are just a bonus.