How shouldi break up with my 3 year boyfriend?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years.He joined a religious sector and he suddenly turned into a very good person.no drinking and other vices, he left them all.He became so god fearing that we dont have sex, he told me its a personal choice.but he...

let me go down on him sometimes!and he sometimes says im sexy and pretty. He used to be really a sexual person.we even had sex after 3 days from our first meeting.He is very sweet,he always remembers me if I have eaten or not, he's always concern about me.I can't really think of anything bad about him.The problem is, I think I lost my interest to him,and he has no clue about it, I dont think I can tell him what I really feel!im afraid to break his heart,and I dont now whats the best way to sayit, that I wouldnt sound like a bitch to him.He wants to marry me,It's ok for his mom and my mom for us to marry too.they all thought were going to end up together, they didnt know whats running in my head right now.Well it's not really just about sex, but little by little he's becoming self righteous.When he sees things like girls wearing mini skirts,he thinks its bad, cause its flesh parading, and in his religion watching movie in theatres is not allowed,girls must not cut their hair, and he expects me to come join him someday.I admit his religion did a lot of good things to him, but I think its the main reason why I lost my interest...help me!!!

I'd tell him how you feel. Explain that you miss the man that you fell in love with. Touch on the fact that your happy on some of the changes he's made but he could be going too far with it and hurting your relationship in the process. If he doesn't try to lighten up a bit then I would tell him that you two have become different people and move on. It sad he could be a wonderful guy but If he doesn't make you happy then you aren't the right person for him. He could get the hint and you might have an excellent relationship. You have to open up to find out.

WOW, Thats really difficult because youve developed your love for him
over 3 years. I am instantly critical of any religious sects. I shouldnt be, I think that your freedom of expression is what makes us who we are. Whether its how we dress, what our beliefs are, what our sexual preferences are. If you are breaking it off, pay him the same courteousy he paid to you when he decided to change his ways! Be honest, and tell him exactly what you told me! Tell him you think hes becoming self-righteous he shouldnt use his beliefs to belittle people. You sound concerned but also sound like youve already made your mind up? If he is getting progressively stubborn with his beliefs and you dont agree with them, either agree to disagree or maybe cool off for a while. I think you already know what the right thing is to do, but really think it through first.

p.s as for him letting you give him head thats a load of crap. Of course he lets you do that because it pleases him, if he returns the favour then thats different but thats wrong.... sex is sex whether its head or intercourse gods not going to say oh thats ok
Any decent person should be able to tell his lover how special they are!