How do you get fingered?

I have a boyfrend and people keep asking me if I will let him finger me. I want to let him but im a virgin and im scared it mite hurt and he might not find the right place...I only think that because I've had trouble getting tampons in...do you think im...

getting it rong or over reacting?

well, you only have 2 holes down ther and iff it's not ur anus, u've found the right one. if he's gentle with you it shouldnt hurt al all, but u have to try different ammounts of pressure, and different sppeds, and don't hesitate to tell him what u like and dont like. Communication is key to any relationship, sexual or otherwise.

I agree with the below comment, and also have him use lube... and warm you up with come clit stimulation... and maybe some eating out first... but defiently use some lube.... Also i dont think a finger will effect the hymen unless he uses more than one finger. Also you can buy lube for tampons to... i think its called jelly it would be by the condoms. Also check out this answer, to find out he can give u a gspot orgasm... and about orgasms in general...

http://www.funadvice.com/?xq=8882

it might be uncomfortable the first time but it prolly wont hurt..get some lube if you want..but the f i am with now is the boy i have done everything with..and it didnt hurt just uncomfortable the first time he fingered me..yea make sure u tell him what u like and dont like

I was really nervous to for the same reason you are. But I did a stupid thing and got drunk and let people do it to me, I didnt feel a thing, it was stupid but I thought this way i coudl get it over with and not worry about it hurting, I ahev done it without being drunk also of coars and it doesnt hurt much, and I ahve foudn tampons starting to go in alot easier also, I jsut have troubles getting them out, weird I know..

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