How do you finger a girl?

My girlfriend wants me to finger her and I want to also. But the only problem is... I don't no how. So how do you finger a girl and make her orgasium?

I am a 17 year old girl, and I dont know if this is normal, but I liked to be fingerd super hard and rough. I like being dominated and I get so wet. I think I might have lost enthusiasm with sex...what do I do?

hey I'm a girl- 16
I can give you advice from a GREAT experience

first, id agree with everybody else- make out, start massaging her neck and eventually her breasts (personally, I get really turned on when my boyfriend plays with and sucks on my breasts)
if she's into this kinda thing, talk dirty to her
WHILE KISSING OR TOUCHING OR SOMETHING, start moving your hand to rubbing her v* outside of her clothes
if you work down to her skin layer by layer, she'll go insane with pleasure and anticipation.
gently rub the lips of her v* with 2 fingers keeping a nice motion (she'll probably be really wet by now)
you will feel a hole- yah, thats where you are supposed to put your finger(s). DEFINATELY START ONLY WITH ONE FINGER
as soon as you slide your fingers in and begin moving them around, shes gonna moan and gasp with pleasure- keep kissing her or holding her with your other hand
that will definately make her cum
once she... or you... are finished and youve removed your fingers, lick them (it's not gross- I've tasted my own cum before and it's not gross) and tell her something sexy like ooh baby, you taste good and then rub your (wet) fingers on her lips. most likely, she will open her mouth and she will suck on your fingers. that should get you turned on and she might give you a little surprise.
hope it helps!

Okay, well all this romantic stuff is total bull. The first time I fingered my girl we were in the movies watching terminator 4. lmfao right? anyway this was my first time fingering a girl and I just kinda dove in. before I know it she's clawing at my arm and moaning. You don't have to be Fabio to please a woman kay?

yes and no.. you can do more if shes topless, but it she has a top on you can still feel them

Well after you finger her you should have sex it's more sexy

Ahhh(:
Okay,
I LOVE when guys do it slow,
Then go REALLY fast,
AND,
When you have your fingers inside,
Wiggle them around in circles,
It feels AWESOME(:

Wash your hands. And make sure that your nails are clipped, then rub it at first, and slowly go in whit 1 finger and then 2 and then all five!!! It feels so good!!!

yeah make sure your hands are clean first off..than kiss her slowly..kiss her on her neck and lick her neck real slow...lol than work your hands like rub on her chest and make your way downtown..lmao...then keep kissing on her and her neck to keep her in the mode...then unbutton her pants or whatever and rub slowly on her[private] then slowly stick 1 finger and..take your time..2 fast or rough will hurt her...than try not 2 go to deep either.then just go in and out..and ask her if she wants it faster or what not...hope you make her happy lmfao

weell im only 14, and I've been fingered PLENTY of times trust me. my first time I was sleeping at this guys house ( he had a girlfriend ) and I was just planning on sleeping there no harm, he had his bestfriends there and I had mine too. they both slept on the floor. so me and this guy were laying down on his bed and I was about ready to sleep until he started cuddling with me and feeling up on me, see I was 13. and I didnt know what to expect so then he took my pants off and slowly went down and just shoved his fingers in, that hurt. I tried moaning anyway to make him feel good. but after that it was half bad, I ended up having sex the guy a good month later.