How do you finger a girl?

My girlfriend wants me to finger her and I want to also. But the only problem is... I don't no how. So how do you finger a girl and make her orgasium?

alright,soo.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months,hes fingered me plenty of times,
but you have to make sure you and your girl are completly ready,you dont want to experience something new like this,with someone you dont think will last,thats just being sleezy.

First of all,you should be laying down,beds are nice,couches work,whatever.
start to slowly rub the vagina while making out (its hotter w/ clothes on)
then once she starts getting horny (youll be able to tell)
Unzip her pants/skirt (whatever) and start rubbing/stroking the lips of the vagina,get her going.

If this is her first time,shes not loose at all,start with one finger,and if that slides in pretty good,upgrade to two,I wouldnt do more then that for the first time.
If it isnt her first time,start out with two,then make your way to three,but make sure you tell her to let you know if shes in any pain at all,because that ruins everything.
No nails!!! it kills.
also,dont laugh,or talk,during this..its annoying. haha.
Be as sexy as possible,and just get a rythem going.

good luck!

well the thing is u slowly massarge there vingain with ur vinger then when it fell lose u slowly rub ur finger in and out of her

how do i finger a girl so that she likes it and go crazy about it

well my advise is to start off slow with slow gentle strokes up and down the slit.Don't just dive inside her!!!! Play abit. Spell the alphabet on the hole while you rub her clit( where the inner lips of the vigaina meet and form a litlle pea sized bump) .works for me

Well first of all I luv it when my boyfriend fingers me it make me horny,,,
how to finger a girl is you start out on the out side of the clothes
WHY cause rubin a dry ussy is like carpit burn it hurts
when she starts to cum slowly unzip and unbutton her pants
then reach in then slowly go up and down so she feels cumferable
then get faster and faster, remember she'll moan a little, if she likes it...

ok to actually finger a girl start off by rubbing/massaging her vagina OUTSIDE the trousers/knickers whatever! then go into the trousers and you can do a mixture of things but you first need to make her wet to actually go up her vagina. you could rub/stroke the top of the lips of the vagina. also an amazing turn on spot is just where the outerlips start there is a nerve which you can rub from side to side or in circles but sometimes this can be a bit painful so remember to pay attention to her. also at the top(just inside the vagina) there is skin that is a bit like the skin on your forehead. if you rub this in circles this is also a great turn on spot! be careful when actually going inside the vagina and dont jump in straight away with two fingers as you dont know how tight she is! and the most important thing is to be gentle! the vagina is a sensitive place and if you have long nails make sure you cut them so you dont stratch her. and always remember to pay attention to her to make sure your not putting her in any pain etc.

ok some easy advice would be to slowly reach down there and rub her a little then stick ur middle finger in her and go as long as u can the faster you go the more she will enjoy it and if you can try to use nore than one finger

There is no right answer folks for his question because we all know that girls are different and have differents bodies.

some girls like it fast, some not, others like it with 2 fingers, some girls rich the orgasm by touching her G.Spot other rich the orgasm by moving your hand on their clitoris. The best way is to let her drive your hand in the beginning and see how she likes it.

Most of the girls love to get fingered as the same position and the same angle as they masturbating, because their bodies get used to that position

all you do is take your two fingers an put them up her crotch hole an start moveing them around!!! them go in an out an use your toung once in a while!!!

Step OneStart by lightly massaging her mound with your palm, encourage her to ride your knuckles for the first few moments.
2Step TwoNext, touch a lubed fingertip to the outer lips of her vagina and trace around them, testing her wetness. (Adding lube will make your fingertips glide and help her ride.) Run your finger up over her ***oris, and then back down over the opening to her vagina. Gently at first, then slowly increase the pressure and movement up and down and/or side to side.
3Step Three Click to enlargeWhen she's hot, wet and moaning - push one finger into her vagina SLOWLY as far as your second or third knuckle. If you know how to locate her g spot, find it and rub it with your fingertips in a steady, circular motion. Combine this with simulating intercourse by pulling your fingers in and out of her vagina. As you develop your technique over time, penetrate her with a finger or two, and massage her ***oris with the thumb of that same hand all at the same time. Make sure to keep your rhythm and coordination synchronized.
4Step FourWhen she starts to get off, her breathing will change and you will feel her vagina muscles pushing against your hand and thrusting in waves. A trick to building her orgasm is to push against her thrusts with your fingers and continue stimulation. Maintain a consistent rhythm and pressure, if you stop the rhythm she may lose her orgasm or it may drop off and lose sensation. Just say NO to variations when she starts to scream and groan.

I have a question? which hole do you put your finger in? there are 3!! top middle or bottom?

is it the same holw where you put a tampon in? cause I tried that and it hurt hella a lot. my boyfriend wants 2 finger me cause I've given him handjobs and he wants 2 do something 4 me. I want him 2 but I dont want it 2 be awkward and I dont want it 2 hurt when/if he cant put his finger in. what should I do?

boy you are some kind of perve I saw your recent questions are you a rapist or something

Jeez there is so much to this question that you have to get some experience and also some more info. Check out this site for the info part: http://howto-finger-a-girl.blogspot.com/

make sure she is wet...if not...then it wont feel as good..and you will get a negative response. enjoy!

the first time you finger her dont go to hard because if its her first time it might sting a lil just take it nice and easy then when you think you are ready and she is ready go faster and then what happens from there is your choice!

Start by lightly massaging her mound with your palm, encourage her to ride your knuckles for the first few moments.
Step
2
Next, touch a lubed fingertip to the outer lips of her vagina and trace around them, testing her wetness. (Adding lube will make your fingertips glide and help her ride.) Run your finger up over her ***oris, and then back down over the opening to her vagina. Gently at first, then slowly increase the pressure and movement up and down and/or side to side.
Step
3
When she's hot, wet and moaning - push one finger into her vagina SLOWLY as far as your second or third knuckle. If you know how to locate her g spot, find it and rub it with your fingertips in a steady, circular motion. Combine this with simulating intercourse by pulling your fingers in and out of her vagina. As you develop your technique over time, penetrate her with a finger or two, and massage her ***oris with the thumb of that same hand all at the same time. Make sure to keep your rhythm and coordination synchronized.
Step
4
When she starts to get off, her breathing will change and you will feel her vagina muscles pushing against your hand and thrusting in waves. A trick to building her orgasm is to push against her thrusts with your fingers and continue stimulation. Maintain a consistent rhythm and pressure, if you stop the rhythm she may lose her orgasm or it may drop off and lose sensation. Just say NO to variations when she starts to scream and groan.

WELL MY BOYFRIEND HAS FINGERED ME AND WOW IT FEELS AWESOME!!!

he sticks his middle finger in we use baby oilto move it in fast and get me to orgasm! he goes faster and faster until I tell him to stop!!

just remember keep da rythm it will help whole bunch!!!

wow can I just say...
starting with clothes on is SO HOT.
just rub her area first while your making out... trust me.

Needless to say make sure your hands are clean beforehand. Also clip your nails and file them, you don’t want to scratch her.

First start by making out: kiss her on the lips/neck, nibble on her ears/neck (this is a personal preference of course). Move on to the chest area: massage her breasts and stroke her nipples with your fingers, suckling usually works too. Rub her legs, stroke her things, and gently knead her butt (again this all depends on what she likes). Keep going back to kissing her lips…

Once she is turned on, massage over her pants/panties. Once you are sure that she is wet (you can feel this through her underwear) you can pull down her panties. Start by stroking her outer lips and use some of her wetness to rub her clit, gently (it is sensitive), in circular motion or side to side.

By this point she should be completely wet, and you can gently insert one finger. If there’s any resistance, if she’s not lubricated enough, or if she seems like she’s in discomfort, stop and just go back to step one until she is completely wet…

As you are fingering her, build in pace and strength, but make sure that you do not get too rough. You can then move on to more than one finger. You can rub the clit simultaneously with your thumb (this takes a little practice) or switch back and forth between fingering and rubbing the clit. See what she likes…

To find the g-spot, stick two fingers in palm up. When you're about two inches in, make a come hither motion; you should be hitting something that feels like a little ball.

There isnt an exact science to this. Just look out for facial cues, sounds, etc to see what she likes and what she doesnt like. Every girl is different and they like different things. If she seems uncomfortable talk to her, kiss her (mouth, neck, breast, stomach etc).

My First experience:
I Stayed the weekend at her Dad's house. Imagine dating the daughter of

the most imtimidating person in the world. He's tall, slender, with a

gigantic pentagram tatoo on his chest with the word vengeange etched

across his chest as well. To make matters worse, he owns a gun shop,

and always carries one by his side, not to mention the 30 he has hidden

around the house. Her best friend, Paige was also staying the night.

They were going to share a fold out bed and I was going to sleep on the

couch. She, my girlfriend, sat on the ground with me because the couch

was very uncomfortable. We sat there hugging, waiting for Paige to fall

asleep.it was close to hopeless, but she did finally shut her eyes.

Instantaneously we engaged in making-out careful to not wake paige up.

I was moving one of my hands up and down her body, from her face to her

thigh. I paused at her breasts and pulled her bra down just enough to

where I could circle my tongue around her nipple. I went back to

making-out with her and slowly moved my hand to her thigh and applied a

small amount of pressure so she knew where it was. When I started to

make a move up her thigh, she opened her legs(The best way to tell if

she wants you to). After I got up the guts to actually start rubbing

her through her pajama/boxers, I steadily moved my hand up and into her

boxers; she was freshly shaven. Now the screw-up: I couldn't find her

vagina, I was stupid enough to think it was where the hair starts. I

mistakenly didnt think I had her horny enough yet and I spend about 5

minutes trying to turn her on before she pushed my hand down farther

and I found a fountain of saturation a gooey-esque liquid. I felt

really, really retarded after trying to finger her bladder for 5

minutes. My finger fell in with so much ease adn my first move: find

her clitoris(which I still havent.. I think). My middle finger was

completely inside of her pumping in and out, starting to get tired. I

sent in back up, my forefinger, which made her squirm and moan(With

Paige less than 6 feet away). My whole goal was to get her to

climax(Duh). But I couldn't tell when she had. When my finger was

completely exhausted, I pulled out halfway just enough to move my

finger back and forth to play with her. Moments later we heard a yawn

from Paige, In a rush I took back my hand and scooted away from her.

When we were sure she was asleep, she turned to me, leaned in, kissed

me, smiled, and laughed gently. when I asked what she laughed at, she

looked at me and said You were the first one to get me twice. I was

ecstatic.. In all that time trying to get her to climax I get her to

climax twice.

Just go with the flow dude, I was 14 when this happened, I'm 23 now and

we're still together.

BTW: random but girls, or at least mine, doesnt care about size im a

little bit below average so dont worry bout that either

PS: expect your hand to smell a little funny afterward, its natural.

(wish someone told me that lol). Its kinda like b.o. but youll enjoy

it. Wipe it off, wash youre hands, lick it off, or whatever.

Also make sure you file your nails down and wash your hands