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My girlfriend wants me to finger her and I want to also. But the only problem is... I don't no how. So how do you finger a girl and make her orgasium?
Needless to say make sure your hands are clean beforehand. Also clip your nails and file them, you don’t want to scratch her.
First start by making out: kiss her on the lips/neck, nibble on her ears/neck (this is a personal preference of course). Move on to the chest area: massage her breasts and stroke her nipples with your fingers, suckling usually works too. Rub her legs, stroke her things, and gently knead her butt (again this all depends on what she likes). Keep going back to kissing her lips…
Once she is turned on, massage over her pants/panties. Once you are sure that she is wet (you can feel this through her underwear) you can pull down her panties. Start by stroking her outer lips and use some of her wetness to rub her clit, gently (it is sensitive), in circular motion or side to side.
By this point she should be completely wet, and you can gently insert one finger. If there’s any resistance, if she’s not lubricated enough, or if she seems like she’s in discomfort, stop and just go back to step one until she is completely wet…
As you are fingering her, build in pace and strength, but make sure that you do not get too rough. You can then move on to more than one finger. You can rub the clit simultaneously with your thumb (this takes a little practice) or switch back and forth between fingering and rubbing the clit. See what she likes…
To find the g-spot, stick two fingers in palm up. When you're about two inches in, make a come hither motion; you should be hitting something that feels like a little ball.
There isnt an exact science to this. Just look out for facial cues, sounds, etc to see what she likes and what she doesnt like. Every girl is different and they like different things. If she seems uncomfortable talk to her, kiss her (mouth, neck, breast, stomach etc).
Step OneStart by lightly massaging her mound with your palm, encourage her to ride your knuckles for the first few moments. 2Step TwoNext, touch a lubed fingertip to the outer lips of her vagina and trace around them, testing her wetness. (Adding lube will make your fingertips glide and help her ride.) Run your finger up over her **oris, and then back down over the opening to her vagina. Gently at first, then slowly increase the pressure and movement up and down and/or side to side. 3Step Three Click to enlargeWhen she's hot, wet and moaning - push one finger into her vagina SLOWLY as far as your second or third knuckle. If you know how to locate her g spot, find it and rub it with your fingertips in a steady, circular motion. Combine this with simulating intercourse by pulling your fingers in and out of her vagina. As you develop your technique over time, penetrate her with a finger or two, and massage her **oris with the thumb of that same hand all at the same time. Make sure to keep your rhythm and coordination synchronized. 4Step FourWhen she starts to get off, her breathing will change and you will feel her vagina muscles pushing against your hand and thrusting in waves. A trick to building her orgasm is to push against her thrusts with your fingers and continue stimulation. Maintain a consistent rhythm and pressure, if you stop the rhythm she may lose her orgasm or it may drop off and lose sensation. Just say NO to variations when she starts to scream and groan.
Start by lightly massaging her mound with your palm, encourage her to ride your knuckles for the first few moments. Step 2 Next, touch a lubed fingertip to the outer lips of her vagina and trace around them, testing her wetness. (Adding lube will make your fingertips glide and help her ride.) Run your finger up over her **oris, and then back down over the opening to her vagina. Gently at first, then slowly increase the pressure and movement up and down and/or side to side. Step 3 When she's hot, wet and moaning - push one finger into her vagina SLOWLY as far as your second or third knuckle. If you know how to locate her g spot, find it and rub it with your fingertips in a steady, circular motion. Combine this with simulating intercourse by pulling your fingers in and out of her vagina. As you develop your technique over time, penetrate her with a finger or two, and massage her **oris with the thumb of that same hand all at the same time. Make sure to keep your rhythm and coordination synchronized. Step 4 When she starts to get off, her breathing will change and you will feel her vagina muscles pushing against your hand and thrusting in waves. A trick to building her orgasm is to push against her thrusts with your fingers and continue stimulation. Maintain a consistent rhythm and pressure, if you stop the rhythm she may lose her orgasm or it may drop off and lose sensation. Just say NO to variations when she starts to scream and groan.
hey I'm a girl- 16 I can give you advice from a GREAT experience
first, id agree with everybody else- make out, start massaging her neck and eventually her breasts (personally, I get really turned on when my boyfriend plays with and sucks on my breasts) if she's into this kinda thing, talk dirty to her WHILE KISSING OR TOUCHING OR SOMETHING, start moving your hand to rubbing her v* outside of her clothes if you work down to her skin layer by layer, she'll go insane with pleasure and anticipation. gently rub the lips of her v* with 2 fingers keeping a nice motion (she'll probably be really wet by now) you will feel a hole- yah, thats where you are supposed to put your finger(s). DEFINATELY START ONLY WITH ONE FINGER as soon as you slide your fingers in and begin moving them around, shes gonna moan and gasp with pleasure- keep kissing her or holding her with your other hand that will definately make her cum once she... or you... are finished and youve removed your fingers, lick them (it's not gross- I've tasted my own cum before and it's not gross) and tell her something sexy like "ooh baby, you taste good" and then rub your (wet) fingers on her lips. most likely, she will open her mouth and she will suck on your fingers. that should get you turned on and she might give you a little surprise. ;) hope it helps!
alright,soo. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months,hes fingered me plenty of times, but you have to make sure you and your girl are completly ready,you dont want to experience something new like this,with someone you dont think will last,thats just being sleezy.
First of all,you should be laying down,beds are nice,couches work,whatever. start to slowly rub the vagina while making out (its hotter w/ clothes on) then once she starts getting horny (youll be able to tell) Unzip her pants/skirt (whatever) and start rubbing/stroking the lips of the vagina,get her going.
If this is her first time,shes not loose at all,start with one finger,and if that slides in pretty good,upgrade to two,I wouldnt do more then that for the first time. If it isnt her first time,start out with two,then make your way to three,but make sure you tell her to let you know if shes in any pain at all,because that ruins everything. No nails!!! it kills. also,dont laugh,or talk,during this..its annoying. haha. Be as "sexy" as possible,and just get a rythem going.
good luck!
ok to actually finger a girl start off by rubbing/massaging her vagina OUTSIDE the trousers/knickers whatever! then go into the trousers and you can do a mixture of things but you first need to make her wet to actually go up her vagina. you could rub/stroke the top of the lips of the vagina. also an amazing turn on spot is just where the outerlips start there is a nerve which you can rub from side to side or in circles but sometimes this can be a bit painful so remember to pay attention to her. also at the top(just inside the vagina) there is skin that is a bit like the skin on your forehead. if you rub this in circles this is also a great turn on spot! be careful when actually going inside the vagina and dont jump in straight away with two fingers as you dont know how tight she is! and the most important thing is to be gentle! the vagina is a sensitive place and if you have long nails make sure you cut them so you dont stratch her. and always remember to pay attention to her to make sure your not putting her in any pain etc.
weell im only 14, and I've been fingered PLENTY of times trust me. my first time I was sleeping at this guys house ( he had a girlfriend ) and I was just planning on sleeping there no harm, he had his bestfriends there and I had mine too. they both slept on the floor. so me and this guy were laying down on his bed and I was about ready to sleep until he started cuddling with me and feeling up on me, see I was 13. and I didnt know what to expect so then he took my pants off and slowly went down and just shoved his fingers in, that hurt. I tried moaning anyway to make him feel good. but after that it was half bad, I ended up having sex the guy a good month later.
r17 that is exactly how it happened with me except of course we were at a hotel and there was no friend, or dad but everything else is really what happened when I did it! And the smell is exactly true it will smell funky but not like a gag funky but a wow did that really happen and I enjoy it funky. My nails are always short so I didn't have to worry about that! But yeah Find the clit and rub it till she starts to moan and then when she starts pushing her body towards your finger that's when you really step it up and soon enough she'll cum then it will be really easy to get it in there and out. It feels great for you and her (Especially for her)
yeah make sure your hands are clean first off..than kiss her slowly..kiss her on her neck and lick her neck real slow...lol than work your hands like rub on her chest and make your way downtown..lmao...then keep kissing on her and her neck to keep her in the mode...then unbutton her pants or whatever and rub slowly on her[private] then slowly stick 1 finger and..take your time..2 fast or rough will hurt her...than try not 2 go to deep either.then just go in and out..and ask her if she wants it faster or what not...hope you make her happy :) lmfao
There is no right answer folks for his question because we all know that girls are different and have differents bodies.
some girls like it fast, some not, others like it with 2 fingers, some girls rich the orgasm by touching her G.Spot other rich the orgasm by moving your hand on their clitoris. The best way is to let her drive your hand in the beginning and see how she likes it.
Most of the girls love to get fingered as the same position and the same angle as they masturbating, because their bodies get used to that position
damn long answers. okay well its simple you put your middle finger in her middle hole. move up and down and if she starts moving her hips (starting to hump your hand) take the middle finger out and go in again with two finger, middle and ring. once you r done, take your fingers and hand out of her pants and get on top of her. start humpinh her while making out. I havent had sex with my boyfriend so its not like that will lead to it but I feels so good. jujst relax
ok..lol..I never really answer these kinda questions but I remember the other day when my boyfriend was fingering me I frikin went crazy..like the whole rubbin and the wetness or whatever is important too but yu should also know what to do with yur finger once it's in! alright so yur fingers in and my boyfriend likes to kinda wiggle his finger around,and kinda just play around in there..like omg I love it..haha ;P well I hope this helped a lil bit..:)
I would start out by laying down in bed, making out.. then if shes comfortable move your hands all along her body( especially her thighs and breast) if she like that put your hand up her thigh and if she opens ger legs go slow... rub her vagina first and then move your hand into her panties, rub her lips then slowly insert your index finger... be careful girls are really sensitive. rub her clit in clockwise motions... shell go crazy
Well first of all I luv it when my boyfriend fingers me it make me horny,,, how to finger a girl is you start out on the out side of the clothes WHY cause rubin a dry ussy is like carpit burn it hurts when she starts to cum slowly unzip and unbutton her pants then reach in then slowly go up and down so she feels cumferable then get faster and faster, remember she'll moan a little, if she likes it...
DUDE HA..THIS IS HOW I DO IT..I PUT ON IN AND RUB IN A CLOCKWISE ROTATION THE TOP INSIDE PART OF HER..AND LICK THE OUTSIDE SIDE TO SIDE AND UP AND DOWN..BUT WHEN I LICK UP AND DOWN I RUB MY FINGER SIDE TO SIDE...OR you COULD JUST PUT TWO FINGERS IN AND JUST MASSAGE,RUB,BUT BE GENTLE AND LICK YOUR FINGERS BEFORE ALL OF THIS..WELL I DO..TRY THAT
Okay, well all this romantic stuff is total bull. The first time I fingered my girl we were in the movies watching terminator 4. lmfao right? anyway this was my first time fingering a girl and I just kinda dove in. before I know it she's clawing at my arm and moaning. You don't have to be Fabio to please a woman kay?
well my advise is to start off slow with slow gentle strokes up and down the slit.Don't just dive inside her!!!! Play abit. Spell the alphabet on the hole while you rub her clit( where the inner lips of the vigaina meet and form a litlle pea sized bump) .works for me>
WELL MY BOYFRIEND HAS FINGERED ME AND WOW IT FEELS AWESOME!!!
he sticks his middle finger in we use baby oilto move it in fast and get me to orgasm! he goes faster and faster until I tell him to stop!!
just remember keep da rythm it will help whole bunch!!!
Firstly make sure she is okay with you doing it, dont just go down there. Be carefull and slow and first to make sure she is ready, then start changeing the technique and speed and pressure, but then agian dont be too rough because it can still hurt
I tried sticking my head into her butthole she really loved it, but sadly my head smelled in like a week or two after, so maybe try just sticking your arm inside, maybe it will make it easier to wash the smell off :/
I am a 17 year old girl, and I dont know if this is normal, but I liked to be fingerd super hard and rough. I like being dominated and I get so wet. I think I might have lost enthusiasm with sex...what do I do?
First of all... Take your whole mother-ass fist and pump it into her. Second of all... Finger in butthole =) =) =) =) And last and not least... Stick your head inside and let her feel the funk. :)
Wash your hands. And make sure that your nails are clipped, then rub it at first, and slowly go in whit 1 finger and then 2 and then all five!!! It feels so good!!!
Ahhh(: Okay, I LOVE when guys do it slow, Then go REALLY fast, AND, When you have your fingers inside, Wiggle them around in circles, It feels AWESOME(:
all you do is take your two fingers an put them up her crotch hole an start moveing them around!!! them go in an out an use your toung once in a while!!!
Or... You can use roof bricks and just mash them inside the cave. Remember... if she is hairy use red bricks. And if she is shaved use concrete bricks.
umm is it possile I can use some latex gloves during rubbin the clitoris and the hole and stuff
yes and no.. you can do more if shes topless, but it she has a top on you can still feel them
umm pretty much how it is fraised stick your finger up or two aint that hard...
Well after you finger her you should have sex it's more sexy :)
start rubbing
