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How do you makeout

Asked by fishman1234 over 3 years ago, 68 answers.

Im 14 and I dont know how to makeout. But my girlfriend does and I dont know what to do... What do I do if she makes the move on me?

Please help I need it really bad!!!

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Smile to Seduce... Answered by cosmo_eyes on Dec 09, 2007, 02:52PM

Lol... I remember wondering the exact same thing when I was 16... I had no I dea what to do and was scared out of my mind! I wasn't sure if he would still like me afterwards, but th moment came and it was honestly one of those fairytale kisses, I had butterflies the entire time!
this is what I did:
1) I told myself to relax
2) If he broke up with me because I wasn't to sure how to do it and he couldn't lead me and help me along, well then he simply wasn't worth it.
3) Lol I brushed my teeth and chewd minty gum (which helps when you do finally kiss him... because he tries to steal your gum with his tongue wink
4) I looked deeply into his eyes... then leaned in...
5) Closed my eyes and felt his heart beating against mine, then locked lips with him...
6) I caressed his face gently and remembered to BREATHE through my nose... lol you don't want to pass out on him
7) I painted his tongue with mine... makes a '8' shape on his tongue with my tongue
8) I ran my fingers through his hair and sighed
9) I gently nibbled on his bottom lip which made him moan like crazy (remember a gentle nibble, you dont want him missing one lip now)
and finally no.
10) I looked seductively into his eyes and smile and blushed a lot...

And afterwards we held hands and I layed in his arms and we kissed again, and I promise you every kiss since then has been just as good, if not even better!!!
And dont think this is only for the girls to do, guys you can do exactly the same for your little lady happy

Just remember if you treat a girl with respect and if your patient and gentle, when the moment does come, it will be one of those forget-me-not moments happy

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Answered by blondie2 on Jan 06, 2008, 05:56PM

put your hands on head or waist, and then gently kiss her at first and then run your tongue on her teeth and in her mouth too. Don't stick it too far down it feels like your chocking her.

Answered by babexo on Jan 27, 2008, 11:04AM
9 answers

relax and go with the flow
first kiss her on the lips twice and it will go from there

Answered by thisismyusernamelol on Feb 09, 2008, 05:22PM

I personally dislike making out. I enjoy kissing, so so so much. Every guy I've ever kissed said I was fantastic. Its insane, I bet they didn't know I had a fear of making out. I have a strict 'no tongue babe' bases. And they respect that, but I feel maybe I'm limiting my fun.

I bet you're wondering why? Its purely because my first two kisses were tongue, and well - They were like dishwashers. One of them even chucked in a blade or two ! Might have even been some dish washing liquid in there wink

Yes I know.
I find kissing more romantic. I know it sounds dull but I'm not sure how to explain it, but the way I kiss it passionate, or sweet, I adjust it to suit the mood and status I guess. Like in a romance film.

I know I sound big headed, I apologise I am far from it! I just know that's what I'm good at. Give yourself some credit for what you're good at, aye happy

Though damn,
I wouldn't mind being a pro at ALL oral acts wink
I should start being a little more adventurous.

Answered by iloveyou_jake on Feb 11, 2008, 06:58PM
3 answers

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oh godd. I remember the first time I made out ! well - I was 11 years old. and I was at my friend anthony's birthday party. well - it was like a makeout session. everyone was making out with everyone pretty much. cause there was a spin the bottle game, but I did feel bad because Anthony wansn't getting any [no girls liked him]

well ,
my first kiss was this one guy at the party. I felt so bad because at the time he had a girlfriend and I totally forgot about it. and it turned out that she foundout but shes such a forgiving person she forgot all about it [:

haha , enough with the stories. all you have to do is BE CALM. whatever you do - don't let your partner [remember this isn't sex ; it's kissing haha!] that your worried or anything. and don't chew gum ! well , you can if you would like to be playful and swith gum around, but other than that use minds because gum usually produces more saliva and whenever theres more spit - it's wayy sloppier! and most people would think thats disgusting. also - don't go too fast ! if you go way too fast the person wont be able to keep up and it'd just be terrible ! and if you need help starting - guys think it's sexy whenever GIRLS make the first move. but that usally doesn't happen haha. whoever starts usually takes the lead. so if you start , your partner will follow you around if your a beginner , I wouldn't reccomend starting.

hope it helps!

Answered by iloveyou_jake on Feb 11, 2008, 06:59PM
3 answers

[:
oh godd. I remember the first time I made out ! well - I was 11 years old. and I was at my friend anthony's birthday party. well - it was like a makeout session. everyone was making out with everyone pretty much. cause there was a spin the bottle game, but I did feel bad because Anthony wansn't getting any [no girls liked him]

well ,
my first kiss was this one guy at the party. I felt so bad because at the time he had a girlfriend and I totally forgot about it. and it turned out that she foundout but shes such a forgiving person she forgot all about it [:

haha , enough with the stories. all you have to do is BE CALM. whatever you do - don't let your partner [remember this isn't sex ; it's kissing haha!] that your worried or anything. and don't chew gum ! well , you can if you would like to be playful and swith gum around, but other than that use minds because gum usually produces more saliva and whenever theres more spit - it's wayy sloppier! and most people would think thats disgusting. also - don't go too fast ! if you go way too fast the person wont be able to keep up and it'd just be terrible ! and if you need help starting - guys think it's sexy whenever GIRLS make the first move. but that usally doesn't happen haha. whoever starts usually takes the lead. so if you start , your partner will follow you around if your a beginner , I wouldn't reccomend starting.

hope it helps!

Answered by iloveyou_jake on Feb 11, 2008, 07:00PM
3 answers

[:
oh godd. I remember the first time I made out ! well - I was 11 years old. and I was at my friend anthony's birthday party. well - it was like a makeout session. everyone was making out with everyone pretty much. cause there was a spin the bottle game, but I did feel bad because Anthony wansn't getting any [no girls liked him]

well ,
my first kiss was this one guy at the party. I felt so bad because at the time he had a girlfriend and I totally forgot about it. and it turned out that she foundout but shes such a forgiving person she forgot all about it [:

haha , enough with the stories. all you have to do is BE CALM. whatever you do - don't let your 'partner' [remember this isn't sex ; it's kissing haha!] that your worried or anything. and don't chew gum ! well , you can if you would like to be playful and swith gum around, but other than that use mints because gum usually produces more saliva and whenever theres more spit - it's wayy sloppier! and most people would think thats disgusting. also - don't go too fast ! if you go way too fast the person wont be able to keep up and it'd just be terrible ! and if you need help starting - guys think it's sexy whenever GIRLS make the first move. but that usally doesn't happen haha. whoever starts usually takes the lead. so if you start , your 'partner' will follow you around if your a beginner , I wouldn't reccomend starting.

hope it helps!

Answered by lorlor55 on Feb 11, 2008, 07:40PM
5 answers

im 14 and im like in LOVE with a guy who is my close family friend :$ anyways, I dont want to tell him how I feel, because I dont want to ruin our friendship, but at the same time I REALLY want to hook up with him. I have NEVER made out with him before, or with anyone :$ but im scared to because I dont want to make things awkward or ruin our friendship. Me and him were like SOOO close to doing it when we were snuggling reaally adorably. But im nervous and scared ...
PLEASE HELPP !!! sad

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Feb 15, 2008, 03:21PM
53965 answers

some people are saying they follow their lead how do you know what their leading???

"Fat Kitty" Answered by shygirl00 on Feb 15, 2008, 09:59PM
35 answers

Alrite.I found this really cool website that can tell you how to doe just about anything.It's called Wikihow.com: http://www.wikihow.com/Main-Page It gives you information about how to french someone,how to truly make out,how to hint someone for a kiss and a whole lot of other really helpful stuff on relationships.Just don't type in make out in the search box.Typing 'kiss' in the box will give you the most helpful results from frenching to just a kiss.Hope I helped!!! happy

Answered by skillzwitdaladies on Feb 19, 2008, 12:52AM

I had this same prob but in my case my girl at the time was two years older than me :P well all you gotta do is kiss her and let it go from there its all natural I mean it just comes to you and you know exactly what to do. but if it gets boring I got two words wandering hands :P

Answered by steve2cool on Feb 28, 2008, 07:05PM

dude I fell ya, 2 day I was wit ma girlfriend and was chillin and skool. im 15 I have kissed many girls but never actualy madeout wit anyone. so I was huging her, looked her in da eyes said baby, you beautiful 2 nite and I love u I leaned in and it really came naturaly (wich I thout woulent happen). all ya gotta do is open your mouth (not like a hipo of corce) and jus let your tounge dance wit hers. and now I cant stop thinken bout her and that magical moment.

%@$*^& Answered by jooliee on Mar 05, 2008, 06:46PM

ok so my first makeout with a guy was horrible.
Don'ts...
open your mouth too wide
stick your tongue down her throat
try too hard (you'll end up over doing it and you'll end up coming off like your a dog licking her face)

Do...
hold her somehow (touch her face, or rub your fingers through her hair)
the rest just go with the flow (dont freak out)

Answered by maddeeluvsu31 on Mar 23, 2008, 08:29PM

let her lead u, it will all come naturally to u

Answered by bruisejunkie on Apr 03, 2008, 07:35PM
81 answers

First thing you need to do: RELAX. If you're all nervous and tense, you'll just end up messing up or making it a bad experience for her.

Second thing, you should probably let her lead. Then just go with it, maybe let her play with your tongue, and then just start to copy her. If she moans or pulls you closer, it means she likes it, and you can continue.

Here's a tip. I know it sounds weird, but you should really practice kissing your palm. Pretend you're tracing her lips with your tongue, but lick your palm. If it tickles, she might like it. If it just feels wet, ease up on the pressure.

Hope that helped even a little bit!

Answered by mailesouza on Apr 09, 2008, 09:01PM

go with the flow..that sounds kindda hard..but I dont know I dont want to come out sounding corny..omg I've never made out and im really embarassed..is there someway I can practice??
im embarassed to even tell my best friends...
what do I do..these tips dont seem to be helping..:'(

llnb Answered by britjp on Apr 29, 2008, 10:19PM
17 answers

Ok so me and ma bst frnd wr frkn owt bwt it wn we wr dwn at hr btch wn we wr like 11 and so we prcticed on each otha, it cums naturali, soon ul e a pro, the guy loves it if you sit on top o him well doin it

If you don't no wt to do mke owt wid da bck o your hnd its the mst like a mouth, weird but gud!!!

Comment for anaxlove's profile Answered by young_adviser on Apr 30, 2008, 04:45PM
55 answers

its just like a kiss only more sensual and there is tongue action and if your like me the girls love that bottom lip and just like stick your tongue in her mouth and wiggle your tongue around in her mouth

Answered by hollywoodglam on May 09, 2008, 01:13PM
9 answers

Making out is so easy
and making out
can be differnt like :]

first off
you kiss her lips soft
and then when your ready
you'll both open your mouths
and she'll probably ram her tounge in your mouth
that means
put your tounge in her mouth
dont be like a washing machine!
going round and round her mouth

experiment!
you'll only get better by experiance
so GO for it!
and be creative :]
it will just come naturally aswel :]
x

Answered by oxcheerxhottieox on May 27, 2008, 03:23PM
14 answers

its actually a lot easier then I ever thought it would be. first you should start off by putting your arms around her and moving in slowly. You should close your eyes and its actually pretty easy you just move your tongue around but not too much. It's not that easy to explain but im sure youll be fine. good luckk!

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