How do you give a handj*ob?

???

you put your hand around a guys d*ck,
and move it up and down.
you'll have to figure out your own technique and what the guy likes.
if your comfortable, have the guy put his hand over yours and guide you at first,
until you get the hang of it.

(I personally think, if you are going that far with a guy- you should be comfortable enough with him to do that)

These are things you should be discussing with your boyfriend! If you cant, then you shouldnt be doing them!

You're 14 and giving hand jobs???
Hand jobs lead to blow jobs and blow jobs lead to sex and sex leads to the possibility of becoming pregnant.

lol your preaching wont affect her decisio the least bit
not trying to be rude
try it over some clothes first until you find out what he likes