How do you "feel up" a girl?

How do u feel up a girl? how are you supposed to know if your doing it right and how do you know that the girl wont feel uncomfortable or not want you to do it?

well if it is only 2 months I suggest you dont do it she will mostly probably think you are going too fast . when you love and care for her dearly tell her and if she loves you too she MAY be ready but maybe not. when you think she may be ready try putting your hand over the shirt and drag your hand down her body if she pulls away she isnt ready if she lets you do it she is. if she is ready maybe gently rub her over the shirt and if she lets you do that then you may go into the shirt over the bra and if she lets you do that then you could probably go into the bra but dont unsnap it chances are she isnt going to like that too much. when you are in the bra gently run her n*pple and keep moving your hand cause girls hate it when guys just leave their hand in their shirt for no reason at all. if she is still feeling confortable she may let you lightly bite her n*pple ... but remember dont rush her... believe me. me and my boyfriend just started doing that stuff and we have been going out for about 5 months now and I am still a little uneasy about it.

Oh you will know if you are doing it right there reallly isnt no wrong way.. You will know if she feels uncomfortable and when she is just stop and just wait until she is ready. just kinda let it happen like when your making out with her try then.

Well.. there really is no special secret to doing this.

When you guys are together, make sure she's in a good mood, and make sure she's turned on. Try making out first for a while.. then gradually make your move.

but do it slowly.. don't rush into it. because if you rush.. then she'll feel uncomfortable fo sure.

when your girl is uncomfortable.. you'll know because she'll probably pull away, or you can just tell by her reaction..

soo.. funmail me if you have anymore questions.
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Well, I hope your not just picking random girls to do this with. If it was a long term girlfriend...you would know how, and when to do things, because you would both have discussed doing such things before hand!

its wit my girlfriend... we have been together for 2 months
but how do I do it like wit the under the shirt or over the shirt
over the bra or under the bra
unclip the bra
how would I do it?

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I did it last night!
we were in my basement watching a movie wit a bunch of people and we were hu under a blanket and I fingered her (it was my 1st time) it was diffifult at first cause she was wearing really tight jeans and I couldnt get my hand down there... but then I finally did and I started doing it and she got wet pretty quickly and then I found her clit and I started rubbing it I think she liked it cause she started to sqwirm and then told me to stop... also I felt her up! I tried going under her shirt but I couldnt get under the bra so I felt her up over the shirt and then we were hu so I went from her lips and I gently kissed down her neck to her chest and then I pulled her shirt down a lil so her boobs were exposed and I was kissing her boobs and I was sucking on her n*pple and doing the nibble thing... she never did that before and she said it felt good... im not really sure how I did though cause it was my first time fingering a girl and sucking on her n*pple and my 2nd time feeling up a girl... but it was a really amazing night
thanks so much for all of your help!!!

ok, im 14 and my girlfriend wants me to feel her up. I want to feel her up but at the same time give her as much respect as possible...any ideas?

she is kinda shy but we really love eachother and she said it was ok...but I don't know how either...

Tyler:

I'm 16 years old and I've done this a few times with my girlfriend ( we've been together about 6 months now) and the most important thing in my opinion is, respect first. If she doesn't like it stop. It worked out okay with me, but it's different for everyone. Moving on, start by getting her in the mood, try different things like kissing her neck (that's a big turn on for my girlfriend) Once she's in the mood, rub her waist, smooth and gentle, still kissing her, than move your hands higher, eventully to her boobs (don't rush the moving part) if she likes it, go back down, get under her shirt, and do it over her bra (might not be satisfying for you, but good things take time) And finally, ifyou guys are really into it, do the same thing, but lift her bra up when your under her shirt and feel her up! One important thing: don't stay in one spot, she'll probably think your a perv or somthing.

Hope this you and anyone who looked at my info :-)