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How do you ask a guy out?

me:D Asked by alyssa_me about 1 year ago, 5 answers.

How do you ask a guy out? Like what do you do after? How do you approch them? How do you say it? Please help! Oh and what do you do when he asks u?

Answered by orangutanuk on May 20, 2008, 09:50AM
50 answers

What you need to do is this:

(1) make sure you feel comfortable. Wear decent clothes, make sure your your hair is washed, whatever you want to do like that.
(2) Try to catch him alone, preferably.
(3) Go up to him. If you haven't had a conversation yet, just say, Hi, I'm Alyssa. and Who are you?.
(4) Make up an excuse to talk to him. Like, I had too many sandwiches today, would you like one? Or, Do you have the right time?, or Do you know where the bus stop is?. It doesn't matter if it's an obvious excuse. In fact, it might be better.
(5) Continue the conversation. Remember to smile. Not like a lunatic though. Be confident, but modest.
(6) Ask them on a specfic date - Would you like to get some cola? or I'm going to a concert on Friday, would you like to be my date?. You need to make it clear that you don't just want to be friends with them, you want a date.

Now, some guys are competitive. They might say something rude to get rid of you, or just to make themselves feel better for all the times a girl has rejected them. Don't chicken at the first hurdle! Try to engage them in a conversation. But if they are with someone else, you must respect that. Retain your dignity, be polite, perhaps try again later unless you think they're a jerk now.

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oldd Answered by five_minutes_to_midnite on May 20, 2008, 03:50AM
146 answers

You can be very direct about it, and just ask him out in person..but it kinda helps if you like kinda know the person...I mean like talking to him and stuff...and most the time afterr it depends where you are you usually exchange numbers if you already havent.As for approaching them,just be casual start a conversation,ask him if he has a girlfriend...if he say's no then be like do you want to go out with me or something like that..If you dont want to do it in person I found this really cute icon that says you should ask me out..I sent to my friend that I like and he did..and weve been together since..and if he does ask you out..say you want to say and go from there make a date...
if you want that icon tell me and ill give it to you

calvin klein model status haha Answered by kraziekd on May 20, 2008, 07:21AM
75 answers

just simply say, would you go out with me? or how would you feel if I ask you out or something close to that. you never know what he'll say unless you ask. if he reject you, then its no big deal and just move on and ask another guy out or something lol. if he ask you out and you like him too, then just say yes.

Answered by bnahell on May 20, 2008, 10:23PM
6 answers

Heres a cool way to ask someone out.
1 .find someting you all have in common and find someting related to it.

2. Bring up the subject get him talking aobut it once you see hes pretty exicted aobut the subject. Say hey you know that movie is comeing out this weekend or hey theres a convetion this weekend you wana go check it out?

me =] Answered by ravii33_x on Apr 08, 2009, 04:53PM
32 answers

Try and keep it as simple as possible...
The simpler it is the nicer it sounds, and mosy guys love it when a girl knows what to say... unless ofcourse the guys a complete idiot. =P
otherwise you get my point
oh yer, try and look as normal as posible I've heard sooo many stories where girls over-do the make-up and hair and clothes just when trying to ask the guy out but obviosly dont look horrible Just Be Yourself! if you know the guy then something will defently look out of place.

Hope I helped

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