How do i tell my parents that i'm pregnant?

I'm 16 and I'm pregnant. How do I tell my parents? I am really scared of what they are going to say. The daddy is only 15 so we are really scared to say anything.

you need to tell them im really close to my parents and i know how parents would feel about that topic its not right you neeed to stopp doing it and get on the right track cause i know if i would do that id be in military camp right now so just connfess and dont lie parents love it when you tell them inportant stuff like that they are your parents they are the most inportant part of you your mom had you you are part of them so confess

First of all, you should definately tell your parents about this. It is extremely necessary that you be able to trust them and they can help you through this. Plus, they are sure to find out once you start showing and it is better to tell them yourself.

It is probably best to leave the father out unless it is brought up. If it is, try not to use names and explain that what you are doing is really hard and complicated. If your parents get angry then try to calm them down by explaining that it was an accident and an extremely irresponsible thing to do.

I am hoping you will not get an abortion, but sometimes that is the only answer. If you are not going to do this then choose the right thing and set it up for adoption so that he/she can have a better life.

I hope everything is going to turn out all right.

~The Young and Hopeful

If you are scared about telling your parents about you are pregnat then you should tell someone you are comfortable with. But if you see your parents alot then you should tell then because pretty soon they will start noticing. They also milght get mad at you for not telling them but itis your choice.

In a situation like this, the sooner you tell them the better it is for you, your baby and for your family. The faster they know you will be on your way on recieving prenatal care to deliver a healthy baby. Try not to focus on your age at this moment, you are already pregnant and what's done is done, just focus on calmly discussing with your parents your future decisions. Try to show your parents that you are willing to get help and ready to take care of your baby (if this is the case). The best thing to do is get it done and over with. The sooner you do the better you will be.

I know all to well how hard this situation is for you. I had my son when I was sixteen and when I found out I honestly thought it was the end od the world. Now I can honestly say that it is a blessing to have a child. I would never suggest that a sixteen year old have a child because it is a very big responsibility and a lot of hard work. You're already pregnant and that is what you need to focus on now. You can have this baby and be a wonderful mother but you're going to have to grow up very fast. Your whole life is going to change drasticly You can do this. I now have a son and a daughter whom I love vey much. If my daughter got pregnant I would want her to tell me right away. If she waited to tell me I wouldn't think she was being very responsible, and to raise a child it takes alot of responsibility. Do the mature thing and tell your parents right away. I know how very scared you are because I've worn the shoes you are wearing now. Make sure you go to the doctor and take good care of yourself so that you will have a wonderful, healthy baby. I think you can send private messages on this site, I'm not real sure because I'm not very familiar with it. If you can I would love to get an update to see how you're doing. You will definitely be in my prayers.
Lacey

Hey I know exactly how you feel iam 13 years old and iam pregnant buy my boyfriend who is only 14 years old so I think you should defiantly tell your parents.

what's done is done.

the best action you can take now is to confess. be ready for one hell of a storm. give your parents time to let it sink in. give them time to forgive you (if they believe its a mistake) and give yourself time to forgive yourself. do not lie to them and instead of getting angry at them for being angry at you and go off topic, focus on the matter at hand. what's most important now is not what you shouldn't have done but what you should do next. let your parents know that.

make your boyfriend tell your parents that he impregnated you. This will solve your problem of telling your parents and the problem of dealing with the father.

dont let you parents make you abort the baby. abortions are very detrimental to a human mind.

giving the baby for adoption is a good plan.

I understand how u must feel i may be in the same situation as you of bein pregnant and if i am i am scared to tell my mom. however are age is very diffrent im 18 finna be 19 but im scared still of what my momma might say. my dad would help but my momma i dont know. but we are gonna have to tell sooner or later. Dose ur stomache hurt know while ur carriying the child? i may be only a week or so pregnant and i am haven frequen urination and sore breast. and the area around the nipple is getting darker. can u tell me what u think??????may i be pregnant????????and when people touch my stomache it hurt or when they lean on my stomache or when my baby cousin climb on me he often hit my stomach and dat hurt as well. well tell me what u thank.

Dear sweetie you need to tell your parents right away. You need to go get check ups,and I hope that the father of your baby will help you out. I sorry that this is so short but you really need to get the help that you need.

Well to be honest actually you can get done for rape because its classed as underaged sex as the fther is only 15 however i think you both should get ball of ur parents togethger becuase its alot easier if you just tell them all together than having to tell the girls family then ther fathers.I know you must be really petrified but you are goin to have to tell them soon because thier is alot of planning to do for a baby.As you cant go through 9 months of carrying a baby on your own you are going to need support and alot of care so the baby is perfectly healthy

im am in your situation. IM 16 and 5 months pregnant...the father is 15 as well. I told my mom when i was 3 months. She was angry with me...but i told her that we used a condom but it broke, and that i was so sorry for dissapointing her. I also said to her that she cant turn her back on me becuz right no i really need her and im her daughter so she cant just shut me out. After we talked she started to calm down...yes she is dissappointed in me, but she loves me no matter what. Dont listen to olivermellan...having the babys father tell them is a horrible idea. Your parents would be more angry with u if your bf told them. You need to tell them yourself. Telling them yourself will make you seem mature and responsible...and they would take you more seriously. Good luck...i hope all turns out well.

hi... my name is pamela and i was right where you were!!! i was in love with my boyfriend and i told him i was pregnant my mom hit the roof my dad said ok thats your responabilty but you know the next day my mom woke me up out of bed and we went shopping and got my baby everything she needed!!! and i was preg. at 16 and gave birth to abeautful 6lbs 7 oz baby girl i dont reget it and i would never change my life now me and her father is married and i could not be happier i say tell your mom and dad and if they freck just say you dont have a choice you need to support in my decicon and be happy for me and for you and your boyfriend congrats

dont worry talk calm sit her down hold her hand (mom im pregnant)

i have the same problem , except the daddy os 18 , and i am afrais if i am pregnant then my mom would do something she would regret .
i am scared , what should i do ??

I would take them 2 a nice dinner and break it 2 them and then say that i am sorry and that i want to keep the baby and so does the father of the baby.and if they take it bad i would say it wasn't my fault or I am happy about it and i think i can support this and r u with me on if ur not that is o.k i understand it i am ssooo sorry mommy and i am sorry daddy i didn't no until it was 2 late those r sum good ideas about breaking it 2 ur parents 2 of my couzinz got pregnant and they r 14 and their parents understood it and i think that ur parents would understand it 2 and does ur bf no??if he doesn't take him with u 2 the resturaunt and break it 2 him i bet things will b o.k. i promise u have 2 stay confident and know that u r going 2 b supported by every1 that u know no matter wat and if u need anymore help i am there 4 ya i sware it!!No matter wat i am always there 4 ya!!!i will b ur frined if u will add me!!!

I would sit down and talk to to the father and them after I had talked to him I would sit down and then tell my parents togather. I mean you have done done it so there's no turning back now, so I would go ahead and tell them because you wont be able to hide long they will see your belly growing. Everybody's parents are diffrent nobody know how thier going to take it but if they love you they sould support you and the father and baby, they might be a litlle upset at first but it should past in a lillte while.

GOOD LUCK!

did u have the baby already

Did you have the baby? And how is everything going? Did your parents understand?

I waited 9months to tell my mum so dont make the same mistake! remember she cant make you do anything you dont want 2 do she just has an opinion 2 it

I had the same thing I'm 16 and I got pregnant a year ago I have two healthy baby girls the daddy is 20 so that sucks I knew my parents wore going to make me have an abortion so I waited until I was three months pregnant that's when I found out I was having twins I got my now husband to go and tell them my mom toke it really well she made me show her my belly I was kind of surprised but my dad was really pissed sadly he didn't talk to until he saw the pictures of he's grandaughter's then he went all out gooy if I wore you I would wait just a little bit longer then tell them. Good Luck