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I might ask this guy I like out and I'm almost fourteen..don't say I'm too young bc I know my limits...but how do I tell my mom because it's hard for me to tell people this stuff? Please help and tips on asking him out..Thx!
intercourse before 14 is not advisable, because the membranes are still sensitive and do not produce as strong an immune reaction and the uterine linings and walls are not strong enough for childbirth. Otherwise why should you not tell your mother you have got a boyfriend and want to go out with him, attention if he is much older he may want to abuse you, and some grown men are actually disguised pimps. careful avoid lonely, secluded settings or drives. If your mother is so difficult you cannot talk to her, talk to her and shock her now, I had a father who would not let me study at a school, even less university, I bowed to his every wish, eventually I am without him, without studies, without friends and miserable at the age of 32, friends learn from my example and do not follow me!
I totally understand what your going through. im 13 and not allowed to have a boyfriend even though I know not to do anything. I dont have a boyfriend even though I am interested in someone but you should say something like...'Mom, I know that you think I'm young. But there is this guy I really, really like! And I wont do anything stupid like all the other girls out there. I promise! And if I don't get with this guy I may go into a deep depression and never do anything again.' Yeah. Add a little humor to lighten the mood xD but still, good luck :)
Thirteen isnt too young to go on a date, my step bro has had a few girlfriends and your age. I tell my parents when I am dating someone pretty akwardly but just plain out telling them. They shouldent have a problem with it aslong as you keep it pretty basic, at your age I personally dont think you would be getting to "close". But Just tell them you like him and im sure they wont make a huge fuss about it
If you have a good relationship with your mother, I'm sure she will see that your are mature enough to have a boyfriend. Just tell her that your thinking about asking this guy you like, out, and just let her know she has nothing to worry about, that of course, you know your boundaries. I hope this helps! and Good luck! - Advice Girl, (:
Don't even bring up that you won't do anything stupid. Mentioning it may bring concern to your parents.. just the fact you thought about it. That's just me though. I say you tell them, straight out. I think they'd respect that you came to them first.
mom, I've got a boyfriend and we wont do anything stupid because im old enough to know that.
