How do i tell my boyfriend no?

ok im 14 and my boyfriend is 14 and weve been together for bout a year to and he wants me to give him my virgenity and im sooo not ready but im afraid if I tell him no hell break up with me but I love him and I dont know how 2 tell him no! ...

please help!!!

Good job! You have enough self respect to understand you DONT want to do this

If any guy is forcing you to do something you dont want to do, he is not worth your time. Men should treat their girlfriends like princesses! And plus- 14 is WAY too young to start thinking about sex. Im 17, have been dating the same guy for 2 years, and were waiting till our wedding night.

Anyways, I think you should just be straightforward and tell him you dont want to do this. If he doesn't understand, he's not worth your time. And dont worry, your prince will come- just takes TONS of patience.

Love can wait to give but lust can't wait to get

If you've been together for a year and you both love each other like you say you do, it wouldn't break up with you over that.

Don't do it.
If you're not ready, than you're simply not.
Don't let him or any other guy force you.

Take a deep breath and say these words: No, I don't want to have sex.

If the question comes up while you are kissing or fooling around, stop what you are doing. Back off, take a breath, even stand up if necessary. Then say, I do not want to have sex now.

Don't let him talk you out of what you know is right. If you make out with someone, no matter how far you go, it does NOT mean that you have to go all the way.

Don't be embarrassed or think you will sound immature by saying no to sex. Choosing not to have sex is VERY mature. It would be immature to be pressured into something you don’t want!

Tell him how you feel about him, and be honest. If you don't feel close enough to him yet, say so. If you really love him but aren't interested in sex right now, say so.

Tell him the depth of your commitment to keeping yourself innocent for now. If you don't plan on having sex until you are married, say so. If you simply know you are not ready right this moment, then say so.

If he tells you, If you loved me you'd do it”, come back at him with, If you loved me you'd wait. Sex is NOT the only way to show your love for another person. If he loves you, he will wait forever if needed.

Keep in mind that if it was meant to be with you and this guy, it was meant to be right for BOTH of you, not only for one of you.

Keep this saying in mind... I am worth waiting for. If this guy is not willing to wait for you then he obviously does not respect you enough to wait on you. But no matter what the circumstances are ALWAYS stand up for your beliefs and never let anyone comvience you that you are making the wrong decision about waiting...If oyu are not ready than you simply aren't. Speaking from personal expierence, I lost my virginity when I was 14 to a guy that had no respect for me...after he got what he wanted from me he naver spoke to me again...your virginity is a precious gift to be cherished...and to be given only to someone who will take it and cherish it for the rest of there life...This is oyur decision to make and I hope that you make the right one but please stand up for what you believe in, if for no other reason than to do it for me because I can never take my mistake back...but if you change your mind and decide to than remember to be safe...protect yourself!!!

just tell him no and if he breaks up with you over sex he aint worth it cause sex is a small thing

cutieof2007,

angelfire2708 gives some good advice. So does jenniferwebb19. Take heed of what they say.

If he breaks up with you because you won't give up your virginity for him, then the only reason he is with you is to get a piece of action.

My wife and I waited until our honeymoon, and we have been married 23 years. Of course, she she was 23 when we married.