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How do I tell him I want to make out, and follow through with it?

Asked by claire474 4 months ago, 4 answers.

OK, so I have a major problem. I am 13 and I am dating this guy (also 13). We have been dating for almost a week, and on the second day he started to ask me if I would make out with him and have sex with him. I told him I didn't feel comfortable with it. In the past he has been known to cheat on the girlfriends that wouldn't have sex with him, and he is not a virgin. But I can tell that he really likes me because he told me that he loved me and when I told him that I didn't want to have sex with him or make out with him yet he was okay with it. He told me that he didn't want to do anything that would make me uncomfortable and that I just needed to tell him when I was ready. So, here is the question: I think I might be ready now, but whenever we go to do something I get really nervous and tell him to stop. HOW TO I STOP BEING NERVOUS AND JUST MAKE OUT WITH HIM?!

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Emo Spongebob, Aint it Kewl??? Answered by nepatsluver on Mar 25, 2008, 02:10PM
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I've been there to, I dated a guy who everybody says is a player, my advice for you is just dont do it, if you dont feel comfortable with it and everyone says he will breakup with you, you break up with him! Dont get your heart crushed over a guy who wants to have sex at a early age. Hope I helped! =)

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ha Answered by junkiehart on Mar 25, 2008, 03:28PM
| 42 answers.

I was once like you!! I was so afraid to make out I don't know why..My boyfriend once even payed me to make out with him!!! well one day I told myself

What do I have to loose!??! ! ya know?

So I actually made out with him & you know what, it was great :D I was really nervous though, but after a couple of times of making out you'll love it and you'll realize what you were missing out on!!
but as for the sex thing..you should wait until you actually truly LOVE the person & use protection!!!

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Mar 25, 2008, 04:16PM

Well im about your age and I really don't think you should even consider sex yet. I know they tell you to wait till you're married but like that's going to happen you should be at least 15 though at youngest... hmmm making out? I had the same problem. just go for it... I know that's hard to do but what do you have to lose? it's just like 1 kiss but more intense and longer. it's not like you're giving anything away or making yourself a slut, you want it he wants it just let yourself relax and get it over with! it's like scary rollar coaster... the hardest part is getting on and once youre on you love the risde and want to go again!! lol

Answered by angelfire2708 on Mar 25, 2008, 04:27PM
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You are being VERY naive, and foolish! This is understandable because you are ONLY 13. You have been dating for a week, and the 2nd day hes asking for sex. You really do need to get a grip on your self respect, because this boy doesnt 'love' you, let alone even like you. He just wants sex! He is telling you what you want to hear, so you will give him what he wants! Sex is NOT love, and you need to learn the difference. You couldnt possibly understand all the bad things that come from having sex so young! He has a reputation for using girls, cheating on them because they wont have sex with him & hes not a virgin >those are 3 very HUGE red flags! You dont have sex with some horny boy just because he asks you, and claims he loves you. Love doesnt happen in 2 days. It takes a LONG time to grow. You will be making a big mistake if you give this kid what he wants. You will just be another girl he screwed to add to his collection. When a boy truly likes you, he wont go around asking for sex. Especially after only dating for 2 days. Trust me when I say, if you have sex with him, I guarantee he will dump you, and find another sucker!

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