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How do I tell him I want to have sex?

my flower Asked by trying2understand 6 months ago, 6 answers.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and the most we have ever done is finger. He told me he wants to wait until I’m ready, before we have sex, but I don’t know how to tell him I’m ready. I feel like if I straight up tell him I want to have sex with him, then I’m going to sound horny or something. So how would I tell him?

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Answered by italianstallone on Mar 29, 2008, 04:33PM
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You should probably go down on each other first. It's really intimate, will take care of your horniness and will lead to sex in the future. By having oral sex, you'll learn a lot about how to please each other. When you do have sex, I think you should let it happen naturally (and use protection)!

Crimped Hair ^ ^ Answered by kattie8451 on Mar 29, 2008, 04:53PM
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well you should probably go down on each other first like italian said but people like me think thats gross and would like to just skip that step but if your ok with it then go for it. as for how to tell him let it happen naturally and like while your kissing unbutton his pants and just start undressing each other if he doesnt get the hint then I don't know what to tell you lol he is going to get the picture. he may ask you if your sure just asure him that you are... remember to use plenty of lub and protection and make sure you are one hundred and 20 % ready. good luck ~kaitlyn~

sky Answered by starbright08 on Mar 29, 2008, 05:12PM
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I would not go down that is nasty maybe you should just take control and threw him down on the bed and ride like a cowgirl or maybe he I gay on the down low

Mi Answered by peruanalatina485 on Mar 29, 2008, 07:30PM
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u should let it happen in the moment like if your doing things then itll evntually get to sex

pilllow Answered by juliajordyn88 on Mar 29, 2008, 09:49PM
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well, that's not a bad thing if you tell him straight up. Like, it's okay to be horny and have sex with your boyfriend. He would probably think it was hot, you being all confident and stuff, too.
But personally, with my boyfriend, I'm experiencing everything short of actual sex first. Try going down on each other, it's really not gross. Well, just make sure both of you are clean down there, maybe you could take a shower together first or something.

sam and me :) Answered by saraboo14 on Mar 30, 2008, 05:05AM
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...haha well im not going to read anyone advice on here so im sorry if I repeat what they say...I can see theyre all saying go down on eachother etc etc, but if your anything like me you wont like it anyway...or better yet (like me again) you might prefer to have sex then try oral etc.

if you think your ready then I say congrats but how to tell him? maybe play around with it,, my mates in the past havent wanted to say it straight up either, so theyve gona and got a condom and gave it to their partner and said "I wonder what it really feels like . see for me I've never had to say it...it sorta just happened...they sort of get the idea when you unzip them and start rubbing around on them, passionatley kissing them...etc etc...but hey better yet if you have got the guts just say to him randomly oneday/night...im ready...let them figure out the rest

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