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How do i tell him we can pass herpes from oral sex?

Asked by cutiepie213 over 2 years ago, 4 answers.

me and my boyfriend have been talking for the past couple of days about having oral sex. the thing is, I dont know if I have herpes but I assume I do since he has it. He doesnt think that if I give him oral sex I will give him genital herpes, and I dont...

know how to tell him that it can happen. What should I say?

Answered by ash23 on Oct 12, 2007, 08:36PM
659 answers

First of all herpes is serious, and if you think you might have it, then you need to see your doctor, to get treated.

You can tell him your not comfortable with it, and you want to be safe. Look up facts and show him. Discuss the risks. Has he been treated? Its not something to be shy about. Talk to him now, before you make a decision you will regret. You need to be protecting your body.

Answered by underwaterophelia on Oct 12, 2007, 09:22PM
1841 answers

Herpes isn't treatable.

But you should avoid oral sex when you have an outbreak.

Answered by ash23 on Oct 13, 2007, 02:05PM
659 answers

The treatments control the outbreaks.

But you will always have it

Answered by doddlebug09 on Oct 17, 2007, 05:54PM
10 answers

i think you both sould of got tested and you do need to tell him i mean if you love him you dont wont to give it to him or vise versa!! every one that's answered is right! you will always have it! GO TO THE DOCTOR THEY MIGHT CAN GIVE YOU/HIM SOMETHING BE CAREFULL