How do i stop my jealousy?

Hey guys, ok I'm 21 years old going on 22. I know i should have matured already in not being jealous but it is so hard? I don't know why i am that way. Now don't get me wrong my boyfriend is the same way but i think i am worse. i cant stand for my...

boyfriend to look at another girl that i don't know. my friends i don't care they are my friends. I really wish i can just do my own thing and not having to feel threatened by every girl that is around. i mean i know I'm not bad looking but i guess cause i see these perfect girls with the perfect boos and ass!! its like man i wish i had her body or you know what i mean?? but he has always told me that he loves me and that i should not have to worry about another girl. i know that but i still feel this way what should i do so that i wont be this way anymore. i just want to be normal. and have a great day with him and not accuse him of staring at a girl so long. any help will do the trick thanks alot.

Hey there is nothing wrong with looking... its when you act on it then its a problem. You obviously have had a guy cheat on you before... and so you have insecurities over guys. You just need to give him a chance... have fun together... and let it go... its something you have to do.. there isn't something anyone here can say to change how you feel about him looking at a chick... you just have to know how he feels for you... and think about that

im jealous of your body erica.. i hate it how you think.. i wish i had yours!

who cares if he looks?!?!?! believe me, i had jealousy issues for a while in my second marriage, because my first one ended because he cheated. heres the deal, no matter how devoted, faithful, or in love your man is, he will always look at other women. trust me though, its not as serious as you think it is, chances are, hes not thinking he wants to screw her, or that he would rather have her than you, hes probabally just thinking, 'hmm shes kinda cute, or shes got a nice ass'. thats not that serious. has he ever done anything to make you not trust him? he is with you for a reason, obevously he thinks your hot, or he wouldnt be with you. you see guys that you think are good looking, right? but how many times have you thought, you want to screw him, or that you would rather have him, or even that you wish your man looked like that? id be willing to bet never. thing is, you need to get over it, and stop accusing, or you are going to ruin your relationship. normally people dont trust others because they dont trust themselves. to tell you the truth, you never know what'll happen, you cant control what he does, and you cant stop him if he is going to cheat. besides if you keep your eye on him all the time, then either hes going to get tired of the mis-trust, or (if he is a cheater) his true colors will show later, rather than sooner, and you wont fing out who he really is, so you will still be with him, and not with the right man, and the one that will be loyal, and faithful. i hope this helped, it was almost like i was lecturing myself as well.