How do I reach an orgasem?

Im 16 and just started to have sex, We have been doing this for about a month and im not even sure if I know what an orgasem is, how do I know one's comeing? And do you have to build one up? how???We go hard and we go soft and slow but nothing, he even...

tried fingering me hard core, and nothing! Im upset and so is my partner..help

Have you ever had org**m, e.g. by yourself?

an org**m is a state of extreme pleasure.. for both male and females.

Females haev an org**m when they're hit on their g-spot and excessively, ( it also depends on women, some women org**m quicker, whiles others take time) ...

the way to know if yah havin an org**m is when yah feel soo much pleasure and you start to hold on sooo tight and grab on.. so if your masturbatin or your mans fingerin u, and you grab on to say the sofa or and e thing... or if yah havin sex and you grab hold of his back and scratch him so intensely.. x

in an org**m the vagina decreases by 30% and everythin becomes tight and congested..

Imiz x

oh and if your boyfriends fingerin u, tell him to take his time, go slow, take a pause every 2/3 strokes, the key to and e org**m is ta massage the clit rather than the vagina.. x

try masterbation to see what you like... the more you know your own body, the more you will be able to help your partner pleasure you. Women take longer than men to reach org**m. Women will rarely reach org**m by sex alone, unless he is wearing something to stimulate the clit as well... Alternate methods of massage...

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in time you will,u have 2 do it more to reach it

iam 16 as well and me and my girlfriend have had sex abit now. we are first timers to this so iam still not sure if I've gave her an orgasem. I've asked her and she says I think so, so iam abit confused. I've read the paros above and she as holded really tight nearly scartchin my back, but while this there was hardly any noise from her is this an orgasem or nearlly an orgasem or what let me no please :D c what you think x