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How do i raise my self esteem?

Asked by julie_lynn66 about 1 month ago, 11 answers.

How do I raise my self esteem?
I always find that I put myself down way to much but its to hard to except myself for anything that I am

Answered by puglover on Oct 10, 2009, 11:30PM
686 answers

You are so very welcome and I stand by what I write,,,
I am a Mom of 3 , a daughter who will be 17 in Jan , a 15 yr old son and 5 yr old boy...I dont expect my kids to be who they arent, Its my responsibility to raise them with morals, values and help them to be the best THEM they can be,,,its not up to me to choose that path for them even tho I may not always like and agree with what they choose...I give them my opinions, but its altimately up to them in choosing...and of coarse this is on issues regarding WHO they are, not safety issues or issues that as a minor children, they still need Mom and /or Dad to have the say so...

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Answered by jessica56827 on Oct 10, 2009, 11:00PM
28 answers

honestly, I have low self esteem also...mines is about my weight...what I do is I try to work with it...

what do you have low self esteem about?

Answered by puglover on Oct 10, 2009, 11:03PM
686 answers

please deal with the other issue that you posted and it will all fall into place...
I wish you the best and if you need to talk , funmail me happy

Answered by julie_lynn66 on Oct 10, 2009, 11:04PM
20 answers

I guess just about myself in general I always feel like im never going to be good enough for anyone. I worry a lot about what I look like and also my weight.

Answered by iamdude on Oct 10, 2009, 11:07PM
10 answers

You're kidding right? You have low self esteem? No way. You're gorgeous. Trust me on that, at least.

But um, when did you start 'losing' your self-esteem?

Answered by julie_lynn66 on Oct 10, 2009, 11:10PM
20 answers

Well I think it was about 2 summers ago I had my sister and my dad call me fat then I was on my schools dance team and my coch was just absolutely terrible and mean to me always telling me im not good enough then it also has a lot to do with this guy I was seeing for about 5 months who slept with my best friend and the guy right after him slept with a girl that I just hate. I guess that just made me feel like I was missing something if I wasn't enough for them.

Answered by puglover on Oct 10, 2009, 11:17PM
686 answers

You are BEAUTIFUL...
BUT no mater how many times people say that to you, you wont see it until you BELIEVE it...you dont need to lose weight, you dont need to allow these other people(including teachers, your parents) to make you feel any less than you are..you ARE a very physically beautiful girl and obviously by your question and what you wrote, very talented...there will always be people who will try to make you feel inferior and that is only because they are insecure with themselves...keep your head high and be proud of who you are and you dont need to change for anyone but you!

Answered by iamdude on Oct 10, 2009, 11:18PM
10 answers

2 summers ago? jeez. Everything you said pretty much does lead up to sadness or depression, but how do you get out of it exactly? That's really hard to answer, but not nearly as hard as what you might have to go through. And I think that it's important that even though it's going to suck, more than just a little bit, you're going to get through this.
Do you have anybody you talk to about your problems? Sorry it's late for me right now though and I'm about to go to sleep. But I can stay on for a bit longer. happy

Answered by vanessasays on Oct 10, 2009, 11:19PM
421 answers

Yeah me too (:
Annd I don't know I just have no choice lol .

Answered by julie_lynn66 on Oct 10, 2009, 11:21PM
20 answers

Thank you so much Puglover and iamdude you guys are helping me a ton

Answered by smoothie_baby95 on Oct 11, 2009, 10:17AM
58 answers

lukk you are a girl there are so much problems in our lives now day s lol so drop the sadness bring up the happiness and show your swagger ...u need to remember that you have a future to I've so be happoi and liv your life wile you can and be the best that you can

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