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How do I make myself more approachable?

Asked by hoshi 10 months ago, 3 answers.

I find that guys don't approach me, even if they totally check me out all night long...except for the jerks who are too confident about themselves and only want to fool around. I've been single for a while now. I'm not desperate about jumping into a relationship, but I'm starting to wonder if there's something wrong with me (ie. image and personality)...all my guy friends tell me otherwise, that I'm such a nice, outgoing and down to earth girl and blah blah, but then again, they're friends and have to say that or risk me slapping them. hahha.
The one thing that I do notice is that I'm bad with maintaining eye contact =( so is this why I don't get approached? if a guy checks out a girl, and she looks at you, but then looks away, but do still occasionally look at you again, do you get the signal that she isn't interested?

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Answered by unstuck on Nov 17, 2007, 02:32PM
| 47 answers.

Well, there can't be something wrong with you if guys are approaching you except as far as you're concerned they are the wrong ones. I think it's important that you know what you want in a relationship. Then you need to think about the guys that want the same thing.

As far as maintaining eye contact, lack of it could indicate lack of interest but it could also be shyness. Needs to be considered with your whole body language as well. I wouldn't get too hung up about it. The worst thing you could do is to think there's something wrong with you as a person. However, if things are not working, it can be useful to look at your image or personality to see what you are conveying to other people. Maybe it might be time to make some changes.

Hope this helps.

Answered by steppingup on Nov 17, 2007, 11:59PM
| 5 answers.

give the boys a smile or a wink haha
I saw your pictures, you look really pretty, so the guys that check you out are most probably imtimidated.
good luck.
x

Answered by hoshi on Nov 18, 2007, 06:35AM
| 28 answers.

thanks you two! I'll remember your advice. =) I'll keep ya updated.

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