How do i know if she wants it?

im 14 and me and my girlfriend decided we want to have intercourse but I want to take it slow. were both in love with each other and I'd do anything for her because I dont want to hurt her in any way. we both still have our v cards. I dont want to go...

right for it. because I don't know if she's 100% ready and I'm not going to do it if she isnt. but should I start off by fingering her? if so what would I do? how do I know if she'll let me?

aye dude I know how that is aiight. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but it's most likely NOT love... give it six months, if yall are still together go for it. but 1. your too young for love 2. you're too young for sex. I remember what it's like being a freshman in high school, thats when I lost my virginity because I thought I was in love.. but now im 19 dating a beautiful woman who I really DO love, and I regret sleeping with anyone other than her.. give it time. it will happen naturally with no pre-planning, and it will be right.

we have been dating for about a year