How do i know if he likes me

i am 20 years old i have been friends with a guy for over a year hes 27 we first met through a friend of ours in the beggining things were great it was like we were togeather he kept telling me we were going to be together and so on.the i find out he has...

a girlfriend of7 years things changed but he said that they just didnt get along anymore that he didnt wanna be with her nomore but here it is a year and a half later and im still being put on the back burner now he doesnt call we never do anything all he wants to do is come over to have sex and then leaves but im in lov with him and i cant say no now hes acting like im nothing saying were only friends and he talks to me like crap he talks to me about other girls and what he does and i find myself crying over him all the time and its not what it used to be now hes still with his girlfriend but i thimk he cares about me but everyone else including his friends tell me to let it go its not gonna happen i feel stupid because im so in love with him i cant leave him alone.what should i do.is itjust sex or am i dreaming whenit comes to me and him actually being togeather

don't think he wants what you wasnt. If you don't gewt that then i can't help you. But for my advice get over him. He's using you. Just let him go and find someone else.

THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME I LIKED HIM ALOT ALL HE WANTED WAS SEX I WENT ALONG WITH IT BUT EVENTUALLY I GOT TIRED. I WAS HIS SIDEKICK I DIDN'T WANT DAT IT WAS HARD 4 ME 2 GET OVER HIM BUT I FOUND SOME1 ELSE AND THANK GOD I GOT OVER HIS ASS SO U NEED TO DO DA SAME

Have you ever heard the saying absence makes the heart grow fonder? There is a reason why this is a cleche. STOP being availible to him. Find a date and move on! Maybe he'll figure out your the best thing that ever happend to him and put his head on straight. If not it's HIS loss not yours. you gave him your affection and he mistreated it. When he calls answer and hang up. When he finally gets up the nerve and takes his sorry butt to appologize don't give in with I love you, you know that! don't go and give him sex right away again. Make him work to earn you back. If he isn't willing to then he isn't worth it.

Darling, dont waste your time anymore! He is using you as a sexual object.... of course he speaks to you like shit, you are giving him what is supposed to be the most sacred of things between lovers...sex.
He has his girlfriend of 7 years, and he has you on the side. Please wake up, youve wasted enough time on him. I know its easy for me to say, i know its easy for your friends to say.... but in reality its really hard because you love him. Why? Is it the hope of him knocking on your door wanting to be with you? If so thats not what loves supposed to be. If you think he may love you then, next time you see each other... dont have sex with him!!!!!! no matter what!
see what his reaction is. if hes happy to just spend time with you then maybe, maybe he loves you. If hes just coming round for you know what.... then sweetie, DUMP HIS ASS