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How can i tell my mom that i'm bi?

i have awesome shorts...i know lol Asked by nicolemunoz over 2 years ago, 10 answers.

i like boys, i do, i even have a bf right now...its just i know i like girls...i mean i love EVERYTHING about dating them...and i have dated a few
its just it would be so much easier for me if i could tell my mom who i really am.
it's hard going about my...

days keeping such a HUGE part of me from her...
i mean its not like we're the closest people in the world...but i still want her to know..u know?

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Sue90 Answered by sue90 on Aug 14, 2007, 05:58AM
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Dear nicolemunoz,
Why do you feel it's important to tell your mom? At this point in your life you will be dating for many years and until you are much older and decide that you are ready to settle down with..hopefully one person...if that person happens to be female then of course there will be a need to discuss it with your family.
Sue...good luck

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shirley Answered by shirley on Aug 14, 2007, 05:39AM
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i really don't see another way but to just go right out and tell her and explain.. good luck

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Answered by gb1234 on Aug 14, 2007, 06:09AM
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well you can easily try to explain to her the situation and explain everything I think she will understand

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Looking sexi on the merry go round at the fair! Answered by mustanghotty09 on Aug 14, 2007, 06:15AM
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You people are no help at all.

Let me tell you first of all being bisexual myself I know exactly what you are going though.
I came out to my mom simply by writing a letter to her and telling her I didnt care what she thought. But it would be nice for her to be there with me and support me and my decisions. My mom drinks all the time so its really hard for me to tell her things so I just wrote the letter and told her I was bisexual and anything else I thought I needed to come forward with like the fact I smoke and have been drunk and everything.

Drinking problem Answered by spuddyspudspud on Aug 14, 2007, 06:27AM
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Well, I don't know the situation with your mum and you so this is just going on general knowledge!! The best way would be to sit her down and talk to her, Tell her how you feel! She's your mother so she'll stand by your side. These days probably half the population are gay/Lesbian or bisexual! So don't worry about it, Explain to her how you feel and she'll understand, if not straight away then give her time to come round to the idea! Hope it helps
x

My brother got his head stuck in the toilet. LOL Answered by whoami on Aug 14, 2007, 11:22AM
70 answers

id just walk up to her and say it!

nicola Answered by harley1375 on Aug 14, 2007, 12:39PM
617 answers

if you're over the age of consent then its easier because you can do what you want to, but there are two ways:

1 tell your mum outright

2 find out her opinion first on bisexual woman and then approach her on the subject.

good luck

Answered by soccer_girl15 on Aug 14, 2007, 12:44PM

Well i think you need to tell her because she's your mom so i think she'll understand.

=] Answered by dead22rachel on Aug 15, 2007, 06:40PM
16 answers

if you have a good relationship [even if you guys aren't close, you can still have a good relationship] with your mom and she is the kind of person who is open about that kind of thing, just tell her.

if she's not... then i wouldn't.

i have a few friends who are bi and gay, and they say its hard to do, but no matter what your mom will love you. she might not know what to say at first, but give her some time and she'll come around. she will still love you, no matter who you love.

arhhh he has a chain saw!!!! Answered by shatterdsoul on Aug 16, 2007, 07:56AM
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i had the same problem 5 months ago, unfortunatly my mo found out the hard way. we had a fight about it, the only reson she was upset was cause i didn't tell her myself. she is you're mom and will love you no matter what you do, how u talk, how you dress who you love. ok, just pick the right moment when u 2 are alone and tell her. im sure she would rather hear you're side, than find out from somone hu doesnt no the half of it, like my mom did.
just remember she'z not a monster she'z ur mom.

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