How do i give him the perfect handjob?

im 13 and my boyfriend is 15.. well I want to give him a handjob and he's a virgin and I dont think he's ever gotten a b*owjob or handjob so I want to make it really good. We've been dating for 5months and the furthest we've gone is makingout but we did...

have a fight thing the other day jokin of course but I would press on his d*ck and he would grab my boob and squeeze it hurt really bad but it was fun. But how do I let him know I want to see his d*ck and be like that without just comming out and saying I want to see ure d*ck cus that would be embarrassing.
So basically my questions are 1 How do I let him know I want to see his d*ck?? 2 How do I let him know I want to give him a handjob?? and 3 How do I give him the perfect handjob??

Ok first of all start m*ssaging his b*ldge outside his tr*us*rs until you feel it's pretty h*rd. Then start k*ssing him and un-do his b[el]t(if he's wearing one), then pull down his tr*users and in the front of his b*xers there should be a h*le. Slip your hand into this h*le and pull out his pen{*}s. (You shouldn't be k*ssing at this point) Start going up and down the shaf{t of the pen[*]s, pulling slightly when you go up and letting your grip go quite lose on the way back down. Get faster and faster and pick up a good rythmn and keep going until he c*ms. When he c*ms you could li*k off the c*m(this will drive him absolutely crazy!) or you just simply clean him up with a tissue. Hope this helped hunni! x

Why is seeing his penis so important to you? Your only 13 for heavens sake. You need to slow your hormones down, or you are going to get a bad reputation girl! If he wants you to see his penis, then let HIM show you, ON HIS OWN! If your wanting to do these things at 13, what are you going to be doing when your 14?
Just because you have a bf thats 2 yrs older than you, doesnt mean you have to be doing sexual things with him. Whats wrong with going to the movies, and hanging out with other people?

I agree with previous answers. If he's 15, and you've been dating as long as you have, and he hasn't asked to do anything sexual, BE THANKFUL. At 13, it's dumb to rush into things. I can assure you, they will be more meaning, satisfying, and comfortable when both people involved are ready, knowelgeable, and mature enough to engage in such activities.

There are other ways to become intimate with your boyfriend, like more open conversations, and trying new, non-sexual activities : )

I think getting sexual with the guy is a bit young at 13 but 2 year diffrence isnt bad my boyfriend is 16 and im only 14 and all we have done is kiss I think you should wait another year

your wayy too youngg
mee and myy boyfriend just brokee up I had been withh him for 5 monthss. I never went under his boxers. he wanted me to so bad but I wouldnt and im thirteen and he just turnedd 14
your wayy too young

its a handjob...its not like its sex, jeez

to be honest babe all these people sayin your too young are probably oldies that think gosh whats happened to youngsters these days, I remember I used to go fishing at the local pond haha ignore them. Age doesnt matter, as long as your safe, clean and ready then do what you want to do. just remember to take it slow though and I think youve done good waitin 5months I know girls that jump into a bush on a friday night and loose their virginity to some random lad at the park piss up .. lmao
and the perfect handjob shouldnt matter, it will come naturally it does to everyone really. plus if its the first time hes got anything off a girl then he'll enjoy it more than you cud imagine.
if you start havin sex tho go get the pill and use protection cause that wud be the worst thing that could happen
good luck

hey, im 14 and your story is pretty similar to me and my boyfriend. all these people saying your too young, thats just sad because if you want 2 do this then you shouldn't hold back.

BUT...first, don't pressure your boyfriend into doing something he's not ready for. like dont ask him straight out if you can see his d*ck but dont force him to let you either. trust me, its much better to wait til he's ready because then you'll both enjoy it.

anyway, if you want to ask him..well this is gonna sound stupid but me and my boyfriend like 2 play truth or dare via text. and we do this late at right so it's really easy to let things take a raunchy turn. just ask him sexual truths, and for the dares, dare him to do all sorts of stuff with his d*ck. if you like you can say stuff such as, 'touch it like this and think about me while you're doing it...' etc. if he responds well, it's a good sign. if he doesn't, he SHOULD talk to you about it. make sure you ask him if he likes it. if he's enjoying himself or not. it's important.

then, if he agrees and wants to go furthur with you, a good place to start is when you are making out. first you could just slide your hand under his shirt and massage his back. this will let him know that you're ready for more. keep kissing him, and don't just go for his lips. kiss his neck and ears too, whatever he likes.

then, if he's responding well (doing similar things to you) slide your hand down to his pants. slowly and gently loosen them, but not so much that his pants fall down because that might embarrass him at first.

and then its good to just rub his d*ck GENTLY over his boxers. you have to be careful because it's quite sensitive for him. he may put his hand over yours and guide your hands to show you how he likes it. don't pull your hands away. take his 'advice', its so worth it because every guy is different.

then when you feel him getting hard, slip your hand under/through his boxers (whatever is easier for you) and take his d*ck in your hand. slide your hand up and down, gently at first. go slow. then, after a short while, press harder and go faster. he should like that, but don't be so hardcore that you hurt him. be careful.

if you want you can pull back his foreskin and gently touch the tip of his d*ck. it will feel good for him if you make your thumb and forefinger into a circle and gently push the tip of his d*ck through. be really careful though! it will be sensitive and you dont wanna hurt him.

anyway, he should get wet, and maybe not on your first time but eventually he'll cum.

remember that communication is the key. you dont have to be outright if you dont want to, but when you are giving him a handjob, just whisper in his ear 'that good?' 'u like that?' 'want me to go faster?' etc, you get the idea.

all in all, have fun, and I hope you and your boyfriend have a good time

luv vic, new zealand x

OMD I cant believe this, your question is an outrage. your 13!!! And if he has not asked for it then don't!! you should be glad because some guys are dicks and yes im a guy no im not gay. I been dating my girl for 8 mths! and im 17 and we have not even done that and shes 19. you need to be sensible. or ul get preggo. God some-people have TOO MANY HORMONES.

GOD PEOPLE SHUT UP! iiF SHE WANTS TO DO STUFF WiiTH HER boyfriend SHE'S ALOUUD. NO MATTER WHAT THE AGES ARE.

yeah people jeez if she wants to its completely up to her as long as shes not pressured

I am fourteen and my boyfriend is sixteen and we plan to do this as long as im okay with it and thats OKAY no one is going to DIE jeez!

and yes activities like that could lead to sex with a reckless guy but if you have been dating a guy for five months then im pretty sure she knows him (also me and boyfriend just got to five months) and so if she trusts him then she should go with her gut instincts

but also a quick disclaimer to listen to your feelings if you start and you have this instict to pull back listen to it! thats your gut feeling and its telling you know but if you feel fine with it go ahead and have fun!! :D:D

hey dont worry about what everyone else is saying, just make sure that you are ready for what you want to do. im am 15, and I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 months. when I first gave him a hand job I made sure there was a big build up, that way I knew that we where both ready.

start of by kissing, kiss his jaw and his (makes my boyfriend crazy) and just have fun. if he is reacting well to that just start rubing his leg softly, rub his up leg near his penis. if he likes that softly rub his penis over his trouses, if he likes it he will let you continue. Then slowly undo his trouses and rub over his boxers, but remember dont rush because there are lots of other things involved e.g. kiss touchng other areas such as his chest.

if he is wants more slowy pull down his boxers, but dont touch it sraight away tease him keep him wanting more. then take it in your hand not to hard but not to soft either. move your hand up and down, if something doesn't feel right to him at first he will guid you to do what he want slowly pic up the speed, when he is ready to cum he will either tell you or he might start to jerk around, or breathing speed will become faster. it is up to you whether you let him cum. most inportantly enjoy it and have fun, because if you dont he wont enjoy it.

if you are worried about doing any of this talk about it first. if he really loves you he will listen to your worries, and what you want and will tell you what he wants.

finally if you do it he might reaspond by touching you, ont let him if you dont want him to, but it does feel great.

I hope all goes well for and that you guys both enjoy it
good luck and I hoped this helped xxx

ok just coax I think it make them feel like its in you rubbing fast drives my boyfriend crazy im 13 also

am I the only 13 year old that dusnt want to suck my boyfriends dick

I dont think shes too young. Personally I didnt have my first kiss until I was 17. And it led to other things the same day. But I know I wasntready so I told him to stop and everything went beack to normal. Its not a big deal she wants to give him a handjob. Atleast she doesnt wanna go all the way. Its good to explore your alternatives. Just make sure he doesnt try anything on you because he could get to horny and lose control of himself and take matters into his own hands.
-Sarah, 17

I think that you should be able to move forward in your relationship just make sure that you know you are ready because if you move too fast then it could lead to something you may regret. I am 15 and me and my boyfriend waited 7 months to do anything like that. we took things slow and didnt pressure each other. communication is VERY important and you dont want to mislead or pressure your boyfriend to do anything you OR him is not ready for. hope everything works out :D

if he is 15, he is perverted..lol so as long as you guys can talk openly about sex, it shouldnt be hard to bring up the subject do you want a handjob?. and if he says yes, dont over think it. Every guy likes it a little differently so read up on the basics if your nervous but just do what he tells you. does this feel good? is a turn on, and so is confidence. And just know honey, you can do everything right, but you will always be disapointed in the end if its not the right person.
have fun.

im 14 and I met my boyfriend when I was 13 and im 3 months older then him we'v been dating for almost a year I gave him his first handjob on his (made it a lil more special) the next day he returned the favor and on halloween we did it
me and my boyfriend are both 14 and I think if you want to your boyfriend will probly have absoultly no prob maybe he wants you to but is to embarssed to ask like you r??

ok rub his d!ck out side his pant slowly and like gently like your rubbing his back
just do that and see how he reacts then ask him what he wants you to do

I think you should leave her alone about this. let her do what she wants to do. kids today are sooo much faster then they use to be. and she has the right to give him a freaking handjob if she wants to. I like to play truth or dare by texting some times. and it will most likely get you both extreamly horny. thats when I told my boyfriend that I was open to giving him one. its good to give him that option. like saying its here if you want it. just dont pressure him. thats a big turn off. but goood luck