How do i give him a mind blowing orgasim?

I want to give my boyfriend a mind blowing orgasim got any tips to give oral sex?

Okay. You can do many things to do this. I would start out with some really hot hot clothing... like black lingerie I would have it under your clothes...then take him into the room and don't tell him what you are doing. Push him onto the bed and start taking off your clothes... do it sexy ... leave your lingerie on... and then take off his pants whip it out and start licking the head... look at him... and be really into it... this is important. Because all excited about it be like mmm etc... then put try and deep throat it as far as you can etc... you can also push your tongue against is cock so it makes it tighter while you move up and down on it... If he saves his nuts then you can suck on them and when you aren't sucking them then massage them gently with your hand.. Blow jobs aren't always about bjs either throw some hands in there... but always USE LUBE. never do a hand job without lube its sucks. I would recommend some flavored stuff so you can still give him a bj at the same time. A good place to get advice on hand jobs view the videos here: (a gives hand jobs to a dildo so its not adult content per-say) You can do a swirl of your tongue around the head... just go all out on it... but watch out for teeth... oh man I dont like teeth... but some guys may... but I doubt it. Also if you feel comfortable with him cumming in your mouth then let him! Its not a must do but guys think its awesome because the girl is really making a effort and shows them they are willing to take sexual stuff to the next level. And in case you are wondering its totally safe, all it is, is protein... but that ofcourse is up to you. You can always let him do it on your face or boobs etc...

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Good luck... and let me know how it works out for you!

Jason

Just adding to the great advise above, would also say dont let him cum. When you think hes about to just stop, do this untill your bored or you think he deserves it. This will mean he keeps getting stopped on the brink then taken to it again and stopped. Always results in fireworks!

Tom

Thats a very good tip! This in conjunction with him doing kegal exersices for two weeks and he could have multiple orgasms. First you /he have to find your PC muscle, yes thats right you can do this to, to have better O's ... your PC muscle is the muscle you use to stop the flow of urine. What you do is is sqeeze moderatly on this for approx 2 secs. And let go... do about 20 reps of this everyday for 2 weeks. Do NOT over do it, because its like any other muscle to much will strain it... trust me on this. After two weeks... you can move up to longer and slightly harder like 6-10 seconds etc. He/You should notice a difference within a week or so...

Jason

I think the advice above is awesome... the only thing I'd get rid of is the cumming on the face/boobs thing. Yes, I guess guys probably like it, but I personally think its an extremely trashy thing to do. I asked my bff about it before, and in his opinion, guys like it because it shows that they're dominant over the girl and can get her to do just about anything. Even he thought it was an extremely disrespectful thing to do to a girl, and said he'd only do it to a slut who would let him get away with it. Don't let him do it... its just degrading. As far as everything else goes, funmail me and I'd love to give you advice.. I just wouldn't want to throw it out for everyone to see hahaha

Lol

Yeah, I've not done the whole cumming over her thing but it does seem abit porny. I dunno if she wanted it I wouldnt mind :P, but tbh I wouldnt want what essentially is like a load of snot all over my face or chest. hehehe

You only live once, so try everything once... it would only be slutty if its a slut... but its your bf and gf... come on... when i get married im going to everything with my wife... why not?

Of course it's up to you what you decide to do... but for the guys, how about we reverse the situation? Do you think you'd like to take a load of cum all over your face and chest? I think not. The only point I'm making is that I personally feel that allowing a guy to do something so undesirable is degrading and disrespectful. Sluts, most commonly, are defined as those females who degrade themselves and do not have self respect when it comes to sexual activity or relationships. Therefore, a girl that degrades or disrespects herself sexually, is a slut. Personally, I feel that taking a load on your face is slutty... then again, that's just my opinion (which was also supported by another guy). Do what YOU want, and have FUN with it... but remember to keep your integrity in mind.

well im not gay, so no, but if a girl came i wouldnt care one bit.

I would never let a guy do that to me. Yes, I would feel sluty, and guess what, I don't care how special the guy is, if he wants me to do that, he doesn't respect me, its gross, and I would not want cum all over me. Its suppose to be kept down there, snowboarder, no offense, I LIVE ONCE, AND I AM NOT DOING THAT....

Lol chill guys,

On a lighter note:
u said,
Of course it's up to you what you decide to do... but for the guys, how
about we reverse the situation? Do you think you'd like to take a load
of cum all over your face and chest? I think not.

Lol when i was blindfolded my gf did this to me and it was v.nice, basically just me going down on her. Not arguing with anyone tho, i think i just have a thing about my gf's cum :P

if i swollow his cum could i get pregnet or is that just a rumor?how do i do a deep throat without gaging?

if i swollow his cum could i get pregnet or is that just a rumor?how do i do a deep throat without gaging?

I like it when I have c*m on my chest and face! I am not a slut either! I am very into sex and making my man happy!

ditto tom's advice. do that to him and he'll have a crazy orgasm!

and to all you girls who are moral authorities on where a guy can and can't c*m, shut up! unless you've lived through other peoples' relationships, then you don't know what they like, so calling it demeaning or whatever is just stupid.

i personally know girls who like being c*med on and find it a turn-on. just because you don't, doesn't mean it is demeaning to everyone.

there are a guys who think that getting on your knees and eating a girl's box is dirty, but i don't. what do you girls think? (my guess is you don't find it demeaning at all, even though a girl's secretions of course end up all over the guy's face and mouth at the end of a nice, long cunnilingus session... and what's wrong with that?)

and while we're on the subject, why do you think it's really bad and wrong and demeaning to c*m on a girl's face or chest, but it's not demeaning to c*m in her vagina?

do you have no respect for your vagina? like it's dirty or something? ISSUES!

anyway, hang-ups are for losers. open your minds.

hey you cn try this if you don't want oral sex or sex

lap dance him.. moan for him
and you cn try this it feels wonderfull for both of u.. sit on hz lap and grind your vagina against hs crouch... ill drive hm mad.. it will be like avin sex withowt penetration... also handjob hm.. 1 gud place is hz glans... oh and as you rub up on hm.. rub your hands ova hz chest. shoulders.. neck..lower back...run your index finger over hs lips.. kiss hm..kiss hz neck ect.. also wiper and moan in hs ears.. tell hm hw much you want hm..hw gud hz body feels against u.. hw horny you r 4 hm... hw gud hz boby feels.. do this in a soft moanin sexy voice

NB snowboarder your awesome.. I wud love to to too u

For oral sex I suggest sucking on the tip and jerking him off but twisting your hand on his shaft not just going up and down he will really like that...

I've been with my boy for over a year, we have not had sex, and really,
with the way its going, doesnt look like we need.
he does c*m on my breasts, but I like it, and plus,
this just means you dont ALWAYS have to swallow.
and its not slutty at all, he likes it, I like it, I like it because he likes it.
I mean, if swallowing or having the sex with a guy you arent with or whatever isnt demeaning, I dont know what is.

Ok, cadillacvernon.

why do you think it's really bad and wrong and demeaning to c*m on a girl's face or chest, but it's not demeaning to c*m in her vagina? --That is one of the stupidest things I've ever read.

The whole purpose of sex is to c*m in the girls vagina. To c*m on a girls face or chest is just plain gross (In my personal oppinion).

Some people like that. More power to ya. But I would never do it.

If you're curious and want to try it, go ahead and see how you take it. If you hate it-- obviously, don't do it again, or vise versa. It just depends on what floats your boat.