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first off girly these people are not your friends second you cant control there actions and if your friend is trully your friend they wont believe these lies
find new friends?
I agree with confusedx0gurl.
Also, consider that sometimes it's just a misunderstanding or miscommunication. The rumor may have started totally innocent. Everytime it passes through a person, another word or two is added onto it. Example: If it passes through 6 people, 6 different stories where passed and by the time it gets to you, it comes out all wrong. It's called "the he said, she said scam". They may not be your true friends or they may never had any intentions of hurting you at all. I can honestly tell you to NOT trust you friends all of the time. Don't trust everything you hear all of the time. Be open-minded and don't just point fingers. Best friends could turn into worst enemies (I don't wish upon you).
Take care and I hope I was able to help a little.
punch em in the face! NO I AM JUST KIDDING!! what you should REALLY do is talk to them and tell them to stop. If that doesnt work maybe tell a trusted adult, or someone older to tell them to stop.
start at the source, I agree w. lostwife, first, see if what you're hearing is actually what they said. if it is, ask them to stop. if they dont, try an get like an adult at school, such as a favorite teacher to stop them like bubblicious said.
They aren't your friends... real friends wouldn't do that.
Rumors start for various reasons, sometimes someone intakes something you say or do in a totally different way and tells everyone. You can avoid this by watching what you say and who you say it to, make sure they understand exactly what you are saying and don't exadurate about it. Don't talk to people about your personal life unless you are true friends with them, when casually talking to someone that you aren't really friends with... watch what you are telling them. Another reason people start rumors is just to make you mad because they have nothing better to do with their time. Some people are just jerks, and you have to try your best to ignore them and show them that you don't care about what they have to say about you. If you happen to find out who did it, which might be hard because immature people don't barley ever own up to what they said and caused... confront them, be an adult about it and tell them you don't appreciate what they are doing. Tell them 'How about you look after you're own life instead of trying to run mine.'
Look at it this way... if you friends are going to believe a rumor without even taking into consideration that it could be false, they aren't true friends either. Almost 100% of the time rumors are false, so you friends should know not to listen to them. Whatever you do... don't start rumors to get people back, and thats the key here - because if you do, it makes you just as low as they are. Once you hit the higher years in high school, you will notice that the people who start rumors are the ones who end up getting laughed at.






How do I get these people to stop telling lies about me?
Send me Fun Mail
My 'friends' have been telling people lies about me. So far they only said two things, but they're very mean things to say.
One thing was that I hated one of my closest friends at school.
Another thing was that I sent another one of my friends a hate letter.
These are untrue! I don't know what to do to get them to stop.