How do i get really get over an ex-boyfriend?

My life has been real screwed up lately, u see i love this boy and he say he loves me to but he is also dating another girl. I've known him for 3 years and everytime i tell him i don't want anything to do with him i always end up going back to him...

knowing that there is another woman in his life besides me, and wat really hits me is that she is cuter than i am (shes got the long curly hair and the high colour skin) shes also a model and she could also dress better than i but most importantly he attends a lot of functions with her and me well he only comes by me in the night in the day time if we see each other he might call out to me or something but thats not my problem u see none of hes friends seem to like me but they all like her because she cute and friendly. I sometimes find myself wondering wat she was doing or something, i mean why am i even thinking about her, i don't even like her because she has the one man i love and want but can't have. The thing is he says he loves and care for me but i don't know how true that is. I don't know i'm just confused and i know i've got some serious problem just don't know wat to do..........

seems to me that he is using both of you. he likes her on his arm because she looks good( some people really are that shallow) but that may be all she has to offer. i know it is probably not what you want to hear but you would be better off staying away from him. if he has any feelings for you at all he will soon come back to you, and if not it is just not meant to be.if he is willing to keep seeing both of you its not a good sign is it? he is just not good boyfreind material if he can treat people that way.

well if u think she's pretty, it's obvious that guys lik pretty and aractive girls. if he really did love u he would end it with her to be wit u. he's just using u. the best decision is to leave him and move on.

if he loves you this much then he would not be with another gurl!!!
this may sound a little harsh but u need to make him choose you or this other gurl if he chooses u you need to set some bondarys such as dont go seeing this other girl in private and try and keep to them. on the other hand if he chooses her then u need to get up and get rid of him out of your mind at this stage u need to be strong and walk out on him their will be pleanty of nice guys in the futer you may feel that he is the only man u wil ever love but you wont soon enough you will reilise that there is pleanty more guys out there who will love and ca\re for you as much as a dad would

i dont think you will ever fully get over it until you meet someone else. so get back out there!!!