How do I get over my ex?

Why is it hard to get over my ex when I broke up with him? I knew it had to be done-but we were together for six years-How can I make him sad like me sometimes?

Making him sad will not make you feel better. Concentrate of getting over him and moving on with your life.

It wont achieve anything making him sad, you know you did the right thing in leaving him, everyone has their good and bad days, so when you have a bad day just think "im just having a moment, it will pass like it always does" and then do something to distract yourself. keep yourself busy and try and forget about him.

Um... Ok, don't make him sad, that's called being a b*tch. Let's try this, prayer. Just pray for your life, focus on the life you have now, and let go of the past, that way you can have a future.

ummm well you seemd to know how to make him jealous....do that to get over him

How can you make him sad like you? Well....I'm sure if there was love and feelings....I can say I'm sure he has his fair share of sad moments too. He could be listing to a song that triggers a memory making him sad....or a special time of the year....once you have love for someone these things and feelings will alway go off in your head even if you don't still feel the love..its a memory...which may have turned into a scare but it just doesn't go away...so I guy Im trying to tell you....you don't have to make him feel bad....if there were feelings...he does still feel bad when memories are triggered for him.

I know how you are feeling in this situation, I am currently feeling the same way. I was with my boyfriend for over 6 years and I was very much in love with him, but I was young and stupid. I did cheat on him and lie to him. He ended up breaking up with me about a year and a half ago. I know that I deserved it, and he was better than me for that reason. But everyday since that day I am constantly missing him and wondering if he'll come back to me... I had a dream last night about him and his new girlfriend, in the new house that they have supposedly built together. In the dream, he tried to explain why he built the house with her and not with me. I woke up crying and am still upset right now. I have a boyfriend that I love very much but iwhen I think about my ex it makes me second guess how deep that love is because I still think about my ex and miss him. I don't want to spend my whole life feeling this way. I want to be happy and content with myself and the one that I love and loves me. Hopefully the others are right that only time can heal our wounds.