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My mum and dad are arguing and said its over so I need some help to get them back together. Please help me I am 13
Well, there's nothing you can really do. People change and so maybe they just don't like how the other one has changed and just aren't into eachother like the were before.
If they stayed together for your sake, then it would be worse because they'd just be fighting all the time. I'm sure you'd rather them be on good terms with one another while they're apart, then hating each other every second they're together. If people grow apart then there's nothing you can do, but accept it. Visit with which ever one you don't live with on the weekends and let it be. You can't force two people to like each other.
It sucks, I know. You learn to live with it. It'll hurt for a while, but once you've adjusted you will be okay. I promise you, honey.
There's a song that helped me out a lot when I was younger. I'll find a youtube video of it and post the link for you. Maybe it'll help you out too. I still love this song to this day. :)
Sure it sucks that your parents are splitting up, but think of it this way. Would you rather they stay together feeling miserable, or split up and date other people that they could grow to love? My parents didn't officially split but they left each other when I was 6, and I could honestly say it's much better this way. Because my father is happy with his new girlfriend and that's always a good thing. Just think of it in your parent's point of view for a second.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NQiBop5ns8k
There you go, there's the link to the song. It might seem stupid in the beginning, but give it a chance.
If you ever need someone to talk to my AIM is SatanJamsToMetal. If you don't have AIM then funmail me or whatever. It's no problem. ;)
im sorry dear, but you can't always do anything. Your parents love you, however, that don't love each other as much. -heartingg
