How do i finger a girl?

im 13 and my girlfriend is 15 and I want too finger her well she wants me too finger her and I dont know how to ...can someone help me..

ok first of all DONT FINGER HER IF YOU DONT WANT TO!!!1

ok to actually finger a girl start off by rubbing/massaging her vagina OUTSIDE the trousers/knickers whatever! then go into the trousers and you can do a mixture of things but you first need to make her wet to actually go up her vagina. you could rub/stroke the top of the lips of the vagina. also an amazing turn on spot is just where the outerlips start there is a nerve which you can rub from side to side or in circles but sometimes this can be a bit painful so remember to pay attention to her. also at the top(just inside the vagina) there is skin that is a bit like the skin on your forehead. if you rub this in circles this is also a great turn on spot! be careful when actually going inside the vagina and dont jump in straight away with two fingers as you dont know how tight she is! and the most important thing is to be gentle! the vagina is a sensitive place and if you have long nails make sure you cut them so you dont stratch her. and always remember to pay attention to her to make sure your not putting her in any pain etc.

good luck! hope this helped! x

A 15 yr old should NOT be asking a 13 yr old to finger her. You first need to grow up alittle more, and understand what you are doing.

heyy im 13 tooo =]] haha anyway dont do anything you do not want to do!!! First if she has a skirt on lift up her skirt pull her underwear down and stick your finger in her vagina hole then move your finger up and down and twirl it around.. if shes wearing jeans do the same thing but take the pants off

Guy - 15

I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT IT IS WORTH READING!

The first thing you want to do when you finger a girl is to make sure that she is turned on and wet. A good thing to do is to kiss her on the lips, neck and/or nibble on her ears/neck (if she likes it), feel her breasts and massager her nipples with your fingers or mouth.

Once she is turned on, as evilpinkpunkfairy said, play with her snatch over her pants/panties. once you are sure that she is wet you can pull down her panties (or put your hand inside, depending on your situation) and play with her lips and clit. some say that the clitoris is hard to find but this is rarely the case and if you know where you are looking (about a half inch to an inch above the urethra) it is not hard to locate.

Massage her outer lips and use some of her wetness to rub her clit. Try to avoid touching the clit directly with your fingers (tongue is ok) but rather rub the hood which covers the clit around in a circular motion, up and down or side to side.

Once you are sure that your girl is REALLY wet, it will be safe and easy to insert ONE finger into her snatch. Be careful which way you push your finger as the canal may not travel in the direction that you expect it to. Be very gentle for the first few strokes, and make sure that you are constantly reassuring her if she is nervous. Take note of any body language which indicates discomfort and stop if she asks or if it seems that she is not enjoying it. As you are fingering her, keep building pace and strength, but make sure that you do not get rough or that your fingers do not become as fast as pistons, as many girls will not like this. you can then move on to more than one finger, however if your girl is a virgin and it is her first time getting fingered you should be careful not to break her hymen (thin membrane covering the inside of the vagina) as this will cause pain and discomfort for her and the situation may become awkward.

If you can find the g-spot, a small walnut sized piece of flesh located on the top wall of the vagina about two inches inside, run your fingers over it and apply pressure. CAUTION: IF YOU HAVE NOT DISCUSSED THIS WITH YOUR GIRL BEFOREHAND, MAKE SURE YOU REASSURE HER AS PRESSURE ON THE G-SPOT CAN CAUSE A GIRL TO FEEL AS THOUGH SHE HAS TO GO TO THE TOILET.

If your girl seems uncomfortable throughout any of this, reassure her by keeping dialogue open, kissing her mouth, neck, breasts and stomach and making sure that she feels safe.

This is about all I have for now, but remember, these are only guidelines. Different women enjoy different techniques, and although it may be awkward, the best way to find out what a girl likes is to ASK HER.

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bud your a little young to do anything why dont you two just makeout thats was a big deal when I was 13 which wasent to long ago only 4 years so dont say im old school and times have changed anyway good luck

don't just put it in and out, it's least pleasurable that way. Move it around when it's up there hahah :D

You finger a girl by sticking your finger in and out of her vagina.

oh my god. no 13 or 15 year old should be fingering anyone. GROSS. You're a KID still!!! Grow into puberity first!!!

Any sort of touching in this manner should be reserved for when you are old enough to understand what you're doing and why. Your hormones are working on over drive and you may find it difficult to control yourself. CONTROL yourself anyways. Before you know it you may find that if you don't wait that either you or your girlfriend might get a disease or she may get pregnant. A romantic relationship does not have to involve any sort of touching like this at your age. Take your time. Save yourself for the special lady in your life, bud.
Don't be in such a hurry to grow up. Enjoy being a kid. When you find that special someone and you do have a physical relationship under the bonds of marriage you will find that it was well worth the wait.

haha wow this is some funny stuff.

well im a lesbo so I've had plenty of practice.. but im not going to tell you what to do cuzz im not encouraging a 13 year old but umm fingering a girl is not just putting you fingers in her pulling them out thats kinda boring.

but if you fingered her an ate her out at the same time they like it more..

why is a 15 year old asking a 13 year old to do that in the first place thats stupid

Wel wel wel i prefer it wen u move it bout a bit wen da man is acually in der If u get me (once ur fingas r in jus wriggle em bout a lil bit) Lol! Also sex is very good!! :D

But ur waii 2 yung 4 dat OK!!

And if u dont wanna finga her... DONT!!!

She aint wurf it if all she wanna do is dirty lil fings wiv u i means she gonna b 16 wen ur 14???

Jus mke sure she da 1 b 4 u do ne fin oK!!!

Much love__CHARLOTTE

wow little man...hmmm...when I was 13 I was at home watching cartoons...maybe you should try the same...before you wind up being a 14 year old daddy...

hahahha.I had a boyfriend who would keep on begging me to do stuff with him and I kept on saying no.it works dude.he got too excited and yeah.did something while I was standing there.pretty gross.I of course laughed and ran.its fun messing with him.hahahahhaha.yeah I know this was no help but I broke up with him and he got soo mad that he threatened to kill me.pretty bad.I know

wow,13 reminding me of my nephew. thought i was gonna haveta kick his butt,lol. but seriously, you're too young right now to be doing that sort of stuff. i'm not just saying this bc im a girl either. first of all 4 play leads to intercourse,lol. you should just stick to going to the movies and making out deal. be careful if shes already wanting you to finger her, shes gonna want more. thats bad news for you. bunch of girls rushing into getting preg at the age of 16,hope shes not like that for your sake if ur together for a while. and wait to hit puberty lol. dont do ne thing you would regret. most ppl regret a lot of stuff, even when they get older.

woa, thats terrible, but u might wanna do it in a pool.

At 15, your girlriend is old enough to be wanting to do this sort of stuff, but not with a 13 year old - its almost child abuse. What is wrong with her!!
You should get a girlfriend on your own level, one who is 12 or 13.

Out of all these responses I didnt see anyone say anything about you washing your hands before you stick them in her vagina.I could have missed it but personally i think you're too young to even be engaging in that type of behavior or to understand the full dynamics of it. But i also understand that kids are going to do what they want to do. So if you do decide to finger her, make sure your hands are clean so that she does not get a vaginal infection that can be very serious and painful.

Y IN THE WORLD IZ A 15YEAR OLD ASKIN A 13YR OLD 2 FINGER HER??? why DONT you NOT FINGER HER IF you DONT WaNT 2? do you want 2 finger her?? also, you only 13. you dont need 2 do all that. focus on important things

If your uncomfortable with it(which you obviously are to be turning to the internet for advice) don't do it. At your age relationships have very short life spans and no meaning. If you two are serious about your relationship then she will understand that you are not ready for that step. Kiss and experiment if you both agree upon it. Don't force her or let her for you into doing something that your both not comfortable with. Good luck and i hope you make the right choice.