How do I explain it?

Ok so im 4 months pregnant and im 15 dont lecture me ok im just asking a question. Ok here is my question my boyfriend is excited but he is scared and he wants to put the baby up for adoption he said he will support me even if I keep the baby and such he has never lies to me. but I was put in a adoption home and I had some very bad experiences and im scared that my child will be hurt like I was I dont want to put it up I have all of the resources I need From my family and friends I have family that are letting me stay at there house if needed after the baby is born how do I explain it to him that im scared and that I want to keep it?

I just needed clarification.

I would consider lying about a female friend, who could also be a potential love interest, then trying to hide his interactions with yet another girl, to be a MAJOR thing. And now there's another issue that needs clarification...

Is he your boyfriend, or your fiance?

***he has never lies to me.***

...really?

You said in your most recent thread, that he DID lie to you. So which one is it?

just be straight up with him...he should know what uve been through in the adoption home. I mean its your guys future baby of course a mother would want to keep it. I think he's just nervous and scared, I mean he is 18, shoot I would be scared too and im 17. try sitting down with him and talk to him...if not then slap him in the face and say im keeping the baby! hehe joke dont hit him. im here if you need help or just need someone to talk to...oh and thanks

Melissa

Captainassassin sorry that I made a typo it happens and I Didnt mean it like he has never lied to me but rather ment he has never lied to me about this type of major thing

ookay captain, way to answer his question.

I agree with melissa. you need to be honest with him and when it all comes down to it, you get the final call. so if you want to keep the baby, keep it. because I bet no matter what he'll be good with it because he probably trusts that you are making the best decision. good luck.

captainassassin he is my fiance ok I call him my boyfriend sometimes because im still not used to calling him m fiance he only proposed a few months ago and also I never said he lied about it because he didnt he just kept it a secret, and im not trying to start a fight I think that its pointless being over the internet.

Lying, keeping secrets, deception, its all the same thing. And nobody's accusing you of trying to start a fight, so there's no need to be so defensive.

Your information is just inconsistent.

captainassassin: I know that its the same thing basically but it happened months ago and I am really going through a hard time and it just upset me that you where pointing out all of my little mistakes I asked a question that I needed help about and all you did was point out the mistakes. You dont know what im going through and you probably never will. Im stressed right now between the pregnancy and everything else with his parents and all because he is a Mormon and his dad happens to be the bishop of his church or w/e and they kind of hate me and are trying to convince him of things that are just not right. And im 15 and have to drop out of school for 9 months lose all of my friends at school and worry about being a good mom and keeping the baby healthy but w/e im sorry that my information was 'inconsistent'

***I asked a question that I needed help about and all you did was point out the mistakes.***

Well, you still seem upset about it, so nevermind. I can't give accurate advice, without accurate information. So I guess the best way to explain it to him, is the same way you explained it to us:

''...but I was put in a adoption home and I had some very bad experiences and im scared that my child will be hurt like I was...''

That should be good enough. Although, I think saying ''It's my child, and I want to raise it.'' ...would be your best reason. But regardless, its YOUR child, and you have the final word.