How do I deal with my mom?

okay so heres the thing my mom used to be the greastes mom in the world like really every one of my friends used to wish they had her as a mom she loved and cared for me but that was befor she got sick she she got sick like really bad she almost passed away last year but she's better now well heath wise now she really deppersed and mad like she hits me and tells me im not worth crap and usually im afraid to come home and I cook and clean and be the adult one she usually never home and when she is she's in her room or yelling at us or trying to imprsee her girlfriend and like im really sick of this my mom needs help I cant take anymore of this I really want her to get so conceling but she wont go she wont even take her deppperson pills and usually im have to get her to calm down cause if she hits my little bro to hard she could kill him cause of his asthma so what shoul I do?

I am so sorry. You need to call somebody!!! Your brother could die, and you could get severe deprseeion. Her leaning on you is not right. You really do need to call somebody before this gets even more out of hand! Try a local church (its sunday) cause they do that sort of stuff, you can probly look up contact details on the net. Or you could call a help line. In australia we have one called kids helpline. If we have one, surely there must be at least 3 in the whole of North America (im assuming you live in America or Canada cause you spell 'mum', 'mom'. if youre not, sorry) Or sometimes its easier to let a total stranager into your life- they can see things more clearly. I dont mean any reandom peep off the street I mean police or welfare or something. Also post your question on a site where it's likely to be seen by adults because they'll probably have a better idea of how to help than I would. Praying for you, whoever you are.

You need to bring this to the attention of a competent adult of help you and your brother - whether that be minister, school counselor, relative, or trusted adult - just do the best you can and this will pass...all of you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

KEEP YOUR BROTHER AWAY FROM HER. AND SHE DOESNT NEED COUNSELING SHE NEED GOD AND CHURCH.AND ID`E HATE TO SAY THIS BUT YOU SHOULD TELL THE POLICE YOU DONT HAVE TO BUT YOU SHOULD AND DONT GET SCARED IM NOT GOING TO BUT YOU SHOULD THIS IS SERIOUSE SHE COULD REALY HURT OR EVEN KILL HIM AND NOT ONLY HIM BUT YOU AND OTHERS TO MENTALLY AND PHYSICLY AND AND JUST THINK OTHER PEOPLE IN YOUR HOUSE COULD GET HURT