How do I become gay?

if iam strait and want to be come gay how do I becum gay. my wife is just getting on my last nerve and I want to go to boys now please tell me howww!!!

I agree with everyone
You shouldn't want to change something
So personal as your Sexual Orientation
Just because "you wife is getting on your last nerve"
You Should try talking to her
And if all else fails divorce
And move on with your heterosexual life
I don't know If you are trying to make her jealous or not but
Gay isn't something you become
Or something to go
It is something you are born with
Sure you could do gay things
And go by gay standards, but that doesn't mean
The feelings you are showing are real
You would end up cheating yourself out
From who you truly are
Think of it this way
A person who is born naturally with brunette hair
Wakes up one day
Wanting to be blonde
Or Go blonde
They could easily lighten it
But the color they are showing of themselves
Is not what they truly have
Eventually the brunette color will grow at the root

I hope that was a good example,
I'm bad at creating them :/
Plus, why would you want to be gay to begin with?
So you could be called a fag on a daily basis
Be mocked, starred at in awful ways by our homophobic society
or even get in fights?
I go through this everyday
It's something you would not want to be
I really wish I could be straight even if it were for a day
So I know
What it is like to hang around a group a guys
Without people walking away disgusted
Where teachers wont discriminate and kids
Wont mock you
I sometimes like the way I am
Being Pan sexual
But never the sh.t I go through
Just be happy with whom you are :D

you dont just become gay...well you do, but's not like a five step proccess, just start going out with men, get yourself a boyfriend

jerrodc,
People don't just suddenly become gay, its not like that at all. People don't choose whether or not they want to be gay. You are either or you aren't - in most cases. Sounds to me that you are pretty straight if you want to LEARN how to become gay. If your wife is making you mad, get a divorce and go from there and see what happens. Because im not so sure that you completely understand homosexuality.
-ѕтәpн♥

your born gay.. however boys more than girls do think about the same sex, fact. and boys will be more inclined to try it out. fact... but this does not make them gay..fact..
good luck

wow, your wife is getting on your last nerve, so you want to "become gay". WHAT???!!! first of all either work it out with your wife or get a divorce!! and you cant "become gay". did u "become straight"? no, it just happens, you cant wake up one day and say "hmm... I think im going to be gay 2day" it dont happen like that. just like you had an attraction 2 your wife you got to have an attraction 2 guys 2 be gay.

you cannot become gay really.
Your born that way.

You cant just become gaz. it doesnt work like that. I have been trying to get strait, but to no prevail. Just continue with zour relationship and go for GODS ETERNAL PLAN are whatever zou belive in

Heres what you do go to a gay club and find a boy friend go came with him make love then your gay

why do you want to be gay? just dump the witch and get on with your life with another girl

umm..guys...your not born gay...u cant be born with a homoesexual urge, its just who you feal more comfertable with. And divorce your wife dude, dont become gay xD thats a crazy idea

I agree with nuriko972 because you cant be born gay or staright it just how you feel and as I was growing up I was staight but over time I began to fell differnt and so what it sounds like to me is that you are only wanting to be gay due to rebel agaisnt your wife and so get a divorse and meet up with a bi/gay guy and talk things through with them I recoment gumtree.com its great at them kinda things and then see how you feel because its not about putting a labal on yourself its about how you feel inside and thay canot change in a short space of time

hey. ok. I am gay so heres how you can become gay. your NATURALLY are GAY. and I dont think you just divorce your wife. especially if you have kids. try to sort out the problems and work of of it to have a healthyer realationship. if you want to be gay. you need to first of all get hard from nude men. I recomend looking a some gay porn and see what happens. then go to a gay bar and have some fun. have anal or oral sex and have some humping during you dancing. even though I am 13. I know a lot about this stuff bc I also looked at gay porn to see if I like it more then nude women. welcom

I don't think anyone can just become gay. They might have some fantasies about being with a guy or whatever. Do what adamgaynproud said. That might just work.♥

What people need to understand about homosexuality is no matter what any doctor says being gay it a chose. Either you chose particpate in homosexual activitys or you chose not to. You do or you don't. Making the chose to be gay is based on actions. Not just words or curiosity. If you love you wife than do whatever it is you have to to make it work. BUT BY ALL MEANS DO NOT deceive her by being on the DL.Please.Please.Please.

Unmm okayyy, Why would you want to be gay??? Just date another girl after your done with your wife or something!!! Seriously dotn go gay! lol

Are you kidding me? You cant just become gay. You either are.. or you arent ,\. THats the way it is!