How can I find the right person for me?

I am at a age of 21 and I have a boy friend woh is younger than me I want to marry him but my parents are not agree because of age difference. there is another guy who is elder than me and he is well mannered and well experienced about life and ofcourse my parents like him.now I dont understand what I'll do. I dont want to hurt my parents and my boy friend too. please give me the right solution for this.

stick with the one that you love. you cant just go by age but you have to follow your heart.

Dear hardtarget,
You didn't state what the age difference is. This makes a huge difference. If he is under 18 they have reason for concern. The human brain does not fully gain it's executive thinking till they are closer to their mid 20s. During this time of development reasonable thinking can be impaired. Since you seem to be willing to give up the boyfriend then I am assuming you aren't attached as much as you may think and since you must have had a relationship with this older gent at some time for your parents to know him I suggest try putting it all on hold for a few years and wait until your executive part of your brain catches up and you are more secure in your decisions.
Sue...good luck