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How can we be friends?

Daisies are Amazing Asked by fade_out over 2 years ago, 4 answers.

Hummm, I am lonesome, and I want to make some friends realll bad!!!
I found one kid that I reallly like, but he doesn't seem interested. He Also told me once in an e-mail that he'd like to get to know me more. After that, he never contacted me again....

Even after I tried emailing him. What Do you think Happened? Why would this great man just forget about me? I still even till this day, Nov 13, Want to see him and hang with him.
I have not seen him since this Past May or June. Longg time ago it sure seems.
I don't know him, but I'd like to. and I miss seeing him .
I know his mom very well and she is soo nice. She told me in the kindest way possible that he has a girlfriend. Pff. What?...does that mean he can't make Friends!??
That's STUPID! I hate it Sooo incredibly much when people delete you out of their lives like ' Ok, I am taken , and I don't need YOU anymore! '
... . Wait, . . you mean as a friend? cause I don't want you more any further than that. I only want you as a friend!!

Anyway, I miss seeing his face, and I just need advice on how to get to know him more . . . I mean, I see his mom, but every time I ask her about him on how he's doing, I feel like I'm digging in too much, like , . . Bugging her on about him. I just want to see how he's doing.
What would be the BEST ways to ask her about him and not make her think that I'm nagging to be his girlfriend, cause I'm NOT! I just want to make friends. And Keep them. Not lose them.
So,.. . how?? I DO have his E-mail. But we haven't talked At All. What should I say about staying in Contact? I don't want to be a stranger to him.

Please, if ANyone at all happens to stop by, Please Answer all you've got! Even if Someone steals the same opinons. I still would love to hear from YOU!

Thanks so much !

purple =) Answered by bobababy on Nov 12, 2007, 06:09PM
50 answers

welll first.if he chooses to delete you out of his life.then move on.yeah it might be hard but whats the use of staying around with a guy that doesnt want you around and the mom is a crazy lady who thinks your nagging to be his girlfriend.I mean seriously in one town the population is around 1,2,3,4 thousand there are much more guys in the sea=)goodluck

Answered by angelfire2708 on Nov 12, 2007, 07:30PM
7798 answers

Why are you so fixated on wanting HIM as a friend? Why dont you try and make friends with girls?
You sound alittle on the obsessive side with this guy. I personally think you want more than just a friendship with him. I mean, listen to how you talk about him!

**I found one kid that I reallly like, but he doesn't seem interested. He Also told me once in an e-mail that he'd like to get to know me more. After that, he never contacted me again. Even after I tried emailing him**.

^If he doesnt want you in his life, you cant force him^. You have to respect his feelings, and find someone who wants to be friends. He obviously doesnt! He was probably getting vibes from you, and doesnt want to lead you on by staying in contact with you. Im like that. If I feel a guy likes me that im not really interested in, I kind of blow him off! I feel if I keep responding back to him, he will get the wrong impression. Its easier to just ignore him. I think thats what hes doing.

If someone doesnt want to talk to you, you have to let it be. If you keep pestering him, its just going to make things worse. You cant make someone your friend, if they dont want to be!

Daisies are Amazing Answered by fade_out on Nov 14, 2007, 11:20PM
93 answers

True Angelfire. . . I sound like a Nagging Lonesome person.

Plus I've TRIED making friends with Girls. They're too EGO and Girly and they make fun of girls like me.
So yea, Ya'll right. I'll Just find Someone ELse who WILL be interested in being my friend , so I won't be waiting around for an answer.

Daisies are Amazing Answered by fade_out on Mar 13, 2008, 10:27PM
93 answers

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