How can my husband that im not a virgin?

since I have had sex with my boyfriend which was not hard at all was quite light but when you say that im not a virgin anymore even though I have not broken the hymen layer so please tell me how can my husband come to know that im not a virgin?

the hymen layer not always bleeding when they broken, your husband know about you not virgin anymore from the muscle inside your vagina, its gonna be tight the muscle and still strong if you never ever had sex before but if you already had sex no mater it was not hard or quite light , muscle not strong any longer and its not tight anymore. and your husband can feel that when he stick hes penis on you. the reason he know the different are he was had sex with the real virgin.