How can i win him back?

My boyfriend and I broke up a little over a month ago. We're now casually talking every couple of days or so, and I feel like maybe we're both avoiding saying what we really feel: That we still care for one another. I don't want to be blunt and say look,...

I'm still in love with you, mainly because he decided that we should be broken up in the first place, and I don't want to look like an idiot if I was wrong. What would you girls do to win him back or would you sit back and see what he does? And guys, would you want the girl to initiate that conversation or do you think I'm right for saying it's his turn to make things right again??

you should just give him some more time to think it kinda shows he still wants to sort things out in life but yeah ask him even if your wrong cuase you do have a right to knowhope it all works out!

So exactly what is it that you think he is feeling? Remember Hun, HE broke up with you. I think you are misunderstanding that just because he talks to you every now and then, doesnt mean he wants to get back with you! Its probably for the best that you dont talk to him. After 3 years of being together, dont you think he would just be able to come right out and tell you what hes feeling...IF in fact hes feeling anything?

I know its hard to accept this, but its been a month already, and there are NO signs he wants you back! The ball is in HIS court now. Theres really nothing you can do.