How can I tell my mom I have a boyfriend?

ok..my mom doesnt let me have boyfriends and im 14!! It might not be a big deal but to me it does...and I want to tell her bout him how do I??

No way around this one. If you think you're mature enough to have a boyfriend and you want to to tell your Mom then you have to proove to her by being mature enough to sit down and tell her how you feel. She probably won't like it one bit but if you explain to her how important it is to you she might come around. Start by telling her that you love her and that what you are going to say will probably make her mad but that you don't want to have to lie to her. Tell her that you want to be able to be friends with her and not just her daughter and this is why you don't want to sneak around her back. It's really hard for our parents to realise that we aren't children anymore and that we are becoming young adults but most parents feel better if their children open up to them and tell them how they feel. Good luck!

yeah just sit your mom down and say mom I really need to talk to you about something and I would be glad if you don't get mad and just listen what I say tell her that but just make shore you are not doing nothing wrong with your boyfriends because some mothers think that and then they do not want there daughter benig with a boy so just tell her she won't get mad.

my mom wont let me till I'm 14 too, so tell her mom don't get mad at me I just want to tell you something I have a boyfriend he is really nice and I love him I hope you do to!

Tell your mom to have a seat and tell her I want to talk to you about something dont get mad but I feel mature enough to start dating im not going to stay the same age and I have to group up I want you to support me