How can I tell my mama that I m pregnant and 14

You can always get an abortion with out your parents knowing... goto a plan parenthood in your area... I am one to be 99% against abortion but for your case I would be 100% for it. In the future get on birth control and wear protection!! you can get it for FREE at plan parenthood.

Jason

You can always get an abortion with out your parents knowing... goto a plan parenthood in your area... I am one to be 99% against abortion but for your case I would be 100% for it. In the future get on birth control and wear protection!! you can get it for FREE at plan parenthood.

Jason

Parents are usually very supportive and understanding when their teenage dayghter is pregnant. We often think they will kill us, but they usually turn out to be a little disappointed but they will still love you. mr_smedheader is right about how to tell her, but be very calm, and remember you are 143, it's ok to cry, it's ok to be upset, but this will teach you a very valuable lesson about responsibility. I sincerely hope things turn out well for you!!
~Tiffany~

I aggre don't do absortion....I ahd a friend just ahwile abck ad she was pregenta.hher mom trew her out of the hosue but she whent to live wit her boyfriend ...her mother asked her to move back in and she is havin her baby...ad her moms thre to help her now.....plzs the boyfriend better b around.....I can say its very hard int he beginin but give them time to adjust
good luck....and welcome to bein a good mommy
*sarah*

Abortions are not the answer.. If you don't think that you can raise a child, give it up for adoption! It may be hard for a parent to do that, but just keep an open mind about adoption. Everything happens for a reason, so this isn't any kind of mistake. I think you should just tell your mom, she may not be calm, but you need to try to be has calm as possible, if not for yourself, for your baby.

SHE IS 14!! Let her have a life.

part of having a life, is living with your mistakes! If everytime you make a mistake, you take the easy way out and pretend it never happened, you will never learn. If you believe that you are prepared to have a sexual relationship, you must be prepared to live with the consequences of that decision.

well I could be wrong Tiffany and you could be right... but I honestly think she has learned her lesson just by realising she has to tell her mom all this... I hope she will not have sex again until she is 18 or so... all I know is my mom could barely make it having a kid at 23... so thats where I am coming from

yeh, I honestly think having a kid at 14 is too harsh- how are u going to provide for the kid?yeh, you can live with your mum and your dad for a while, bt when your 20, uve got to get out. you cant go to uni without abandonin the kid, and your job will always be hindered by havin the kid- you may end up not bein able to get a job. secondly, is your boyfriend going to stick by you thro this? since your 14, this teen relationship may not be as stable as it seems..id be terrified he'd abandon me if I were u. I think this shood be a discussion between you and your mum, bt I personally think the abortian is the best thing for it..

trust me it's hard being pregnant at 14..hey I'm 15 and pregnant which really isn't different but it could be..but you just need to be up front with her. she may be mad but she's your mom she'll be there for you all the way. think about getting an abotion if you get an infection it could cause you not to be able to have kids so just think about it..I did..