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How can i tell my mama that i m pregnant and 14

Asked by angel_of_the_south over 3 years ago, 10 answers.

Answered by snowboarder on Aug 09, 2006, 06:07PM
606 answers

You can always get an abortion with out your parents knowing... goto a plan parenthood in your area... I am one to be 99% against abortion but for your case i would be 100% for it. In the future get on birth control and wear protection!! you can get it for FREE at plan parenthood.

Jason

Answered by snowboarder on Aug 09, 2006, 06:12PM
606 answers

Jason

Answered by tiffany88 on Aug 09, 2006, 07:13PM
385 answers

Parents are usually very supportive and understanding when their teenage dayghter is pregnant. We often think they will kill us, but they usually turn out to be a little disappointed but they will still love you. mr_smedheader is right about how to tell her, but be very calm, and remember you are 143, it's ok to cry, it's ok to be upset, but this will teach you a very valuable lesson about responsibility. I sincerely hope things turn out well for you!!
~Tiffany~

Answered by sarah101 on Aug 10, 2006, 10:41AM

i aggre don't do absortion....i ahd a friend just ahwile abck ad she was pregenta.hher mom trew her out of the hosue but she whent to live wit her bf ...her mother asked her to move bak in and she is havin her baby...ad her moms thre to help her now.....plzs the bf better b around.....i can say its very hard int he beginin but give them time to adjust
good luck....and welcome to bein a good mommy happy
*sarah*

Answered by nikki_d_09 on Aug 10, 2006, 11:49AM
17 answers

Abortions are not the answer.. If you don't think that you can raise a child, give it up for adoption! It may be hard for a parent to do that, but just keep an open mind about adoption. Everything happens for a reason, so this isn't any kind of mistake. I think you should just tell your mom, she may not be calm, but you need to try to be has calm as possible, if not for yourself, for your baby.

Answered by snowboarder on Aug 10, 2006, 03:38PM
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SHE IS 14!! Let her have a life.

Answered by tiffany88 on Aug 10, 2006, 04:59PM
385 answers

part of having a life, is living with your mistakes! If everytime you make a mistake, you take the easy way out and pretend it never happened, you will never learn. If you believe that you are prepared to have a sexual relationship, you must be prepared to live with the consequences of that decision.

Answered by snowboarder on Aug 10, 2006, 05:56PM
606 answers

well i could be wrong Tiffany and you could be right... but i honestly think she has learned her lesson just by realising she has to tell her mom all this... I hope she will not have sex again until she is 18 or so... all i know is my mom could barely make it having a kid at 23... so thats where i am coming from

Answered by runnergeek on Aug 13, 2006, 09:13AM
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yeh, i honestly think having a kid at 14 is too harsh- how r u gonna provide for the kid?yeh, u can live with ur mum and ur dad for a while, bt wen ur 20, uve gotta get out. u cant go to uni without abandonin the kid, and ur job will always be hindered by havin the kid- u may end up not bein able to get a job. secondly, is ur bf gonna stick by u thro this? since ur 14, this teen relationship may not be as stable as it seems..id be terrified he'd abandon me if i were u. i think this shood be a discussion between u and ur mum, bt i personally think the abortian is the best thing for it..

Answered by bebe1991 on Aug 14, 2006, 11:05PM
9 answers

trust me it's hard being pregnant at 14..hey i'm 15 and pregnant which really isn't different but it could be..but u just need to be up front with her. she may be mad but she's ur mom she'll be there for u all the way. think about getting an abotion if u get an infection it could cause u not to be able to have kids so just think about it..i did..