How can i tell if i'm having an orgasam

Hi I'm kinda new here and I hope someone out there can help me find answers to my question. I love sex I mean love it if I could I'd have it every day but the thing is I can't tell when I'm having an orgasam and my boyfriend sometimes tells me to count...

them out but how can I if I don't know when I am or at least about to? help some one please?

u kinda feel this tention round ur vagina, and it spreads to ur legs and then it builds and u hit it and u start uncontrolably moving around. its not so obvious first time it happens, bt it gets stronger the more times u masterbate or have sex.

Well I am not a female, but from my experience in giving girls orgasms, you will know what they feel like. Its an intense rush of ectacy all over your body and you will move around and make uncontrolable noises. You should try a vibrator on your clit... most of the time that will get any girl to orgasm. You can also have him try gspot stimulation. Also work on doing kegel exersies. You should be able to find a lot about kegel exersises online, but start out by finding your muscle, you know the thing you squeeze when you stop the flow of urine... well squeeze this for 2 seconds and 20 reps a day for 2 weeks, then increase the length you hold it to like 5-8 seconds for 20 reps after that... don't over do it to start out because you can pull it believe it or not. This will help with your orgasms alot... I know it helped me... yes guys can do it as well... it can get you to where it has multiple orgasms as well, same with guys.

Jason

Check out this answer i gave someone else about orgasms :
http://www.funadvice.com/my/snowboarder?xq=8882

You'll know. trust me. I'm an...experienced...girl. you feel the intensity building than bam, your body feels like its seizing and you feel as if you reached a top of a mountain...then you feel like ur diving off of it. i know its hard 2 explain but you'll know.

seizing??? Top of a mountain?? Jumping off?? ... I don't like heights... and seizing don't sound to great. I would go with the dictionary.com definition:

1. The peak of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen by the male. Also called climax.
2. A similar point of intensity of emotional excitement.

) just scream a big one, and let your b/f counting.
Anyway this counting idea is a little bit obsessive.

Some guys get a big ego boost out of knowing they are doing a good job... I have done it a couple of times... even though I knew i did a good job because she made noise... its a guy thing... but I think it may put added pressure on you biolady females are much more complicated when it comes to orgasm... be in the moment and concentrate on that... and it will happen sooner or later... but i think gspot should get you there too...

your vagina starts feeling really good then it goes to your legs ang then your body shakes uncountrollable and I have 5 and I am 10 years old with a tooth brush and keep wanting and wanting it over and over again