How can I stop cutting myself?

I have a lot going on right now, and cutting is only pat of it.But, I cant go into the other shet. Everytime I get mad, or frusterated, I cut myself. I know I need to stop, but I just cant. And now with all this stuff about my 'friend' and daniel, its to much!! I have been getting suicide thoughts, and I know that doesnt help anything. Any recomndations on how 2 stop?

the best way is to remember what it would do to the people around you you have to know a lot of people care about you and know how much it would hurt them to know your hurtin yourself or thinking this way

Thx

camn has it the nail on the head. I use to have the same thoughts. The only problem is that I never though of how it would affect my firends and family and I acted out on it. Well I failed and was in the hospital for two months. The only thing I could I could think of was that I had been selfish becuase they were more worred about me than I though and I found out that I had more friends that worried. Get professionly counsouling and always remember that it will get better even if it does seem to be getting worse. You have friends and family that love and care about you. Never forget that.

it's sooo hard to stop cutting.
people stop in different ways.
some snap a rubber band on themselves or hold ice on themselves.
none of that stuff worked for me.
all I did was take one day at a time...'I just have to get through 1 more day'...stuff like that.
I thought about not cutting, cause I didn't want anyone...including men...to see my cuts and judge me.
on the 30th it'll be 1yr since I last cut!
it's hard work still, but worth it.
you can do it

hhmm...

ill try...

geriann,
but even if I stop cutting...the reason I cut will still remain...so wont I cut agian? I mean..the whole problem is m ylife at hom...they make me invisble..lke there s really no point in me being here...for what ever reason you cut urself, how did that go away? or did you just cut urself to cut?

anywayz...thx peoplez

no...shes wrong.
You find out why your cutting, then you illiminate the problem. in your case, daniel. Forget him, and remmber, hes getting paid back. hes suffering just like you are, so just get over him. wjo needs him? you got me and frank. and not...NOT...james..which you still hvent told me about. Frank said hes some big goth dude who nvr talks? ha. id, but clearly, hes not helping u. So forget him 2...dame just get obver daniel!