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How can i stop being shallow?

:] Asked by mrscobainx3 about 1 year ago, 3 answers.

To make a long story short;;
I met this boy,we like eahc other,but I cant date him because Im about 5 inches taller than him,and that bothers me.It wouldnt be so bad,but Im kind of a larger-built person,and id feel awkward dating someone smaller and...

shorter than me..ven though I really like him and find him extremely gorgeous.

I know that sounds REALLY shallow,and I feel like a complete jerk,but It bothers me,I dont think I could date someone shorter than me.

Am I being too shallow? and how can I overcome this?

Answered by mackbabyy on May 27, 2008, 01:43PM
5 answers

To be completely honest, yes, you are being shallow.
Assuming you are in your teens, boys at this age tend to grow a little slower than girls. If you really like him, go for it. I've dated plenty have guys shorter than me and it turned out fine. As for overcoming your shallowness, just get over and go on his personality. If you keep thinking to much about the superficial stuff, you'll never find the right guy.

Hope I helped!

Me Cheesing Answered by theinjun on May 27, 2008, 01:54PM
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If you're shallow, you're shallow. You cannot change that part of you but you can kind of get over it by going against it. I would just try it out for your sake because even if he isn't Mr. Right then you still can say you got over yourself and be better in the long run. Use relationships for learning experiences whenever you're young instead of trying to find your soulmate.

Most current me Answered by sacraficed on May 30, 2008, 09:43AM
146 answers

That's not being shallow, it's having an opinion about something. If you seriously feel that being taller than someone has anything to do with caring for him then you're wrong, if you really cared for him that wouldn't matter at all, solely his company would be enough.

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