How can i stay strong with my virginity pledge?

That's it, I've decided to take a virginity pledge, no sex until marriage for me!!! I'm 16 so I have a long while to wait and I just need help on how to stick to my guns when I get urges. Thanks!

The best way to stick to your guns is to only date men who respect this part of you and support you fully! They need to help you stay on track.

Masturbation and vibrators will get a girl through a lot, too. When you are 18 , you'll be able to buy yourself one. It will be difficult to hold out. Especially in my book, I believe NO ONE should ever get married until they are through their 30's, so this could be another 14 years for you if you take my advice and enjoy your youth before settling down with someone.

Good luck!

find a guy that respects ur pledge

Value yourself enough to be true to you. I have been in contact lately with a 16 year old, preachers daughter, who was persuaded... by the young man manipulating her emotions, playing on them, telling her how much he loved her, and if she really... loved him, then she would let him have his way... Same arguement, that Satan gave to Adam and Eve in the garden, If God really loved you, he would not withhold any good thing from you. He was planting doubt, and playing on manipulation. They fell for it. So do millions of others, daily. So did the preachers daughter.

Then... Mr. Smart pants, abandoned her... the minute that she found out the consequences of her actions... pregnancy... at 16... still a baby herself... now, fixing to have to take on the responsibilites of mother hood. Not a small task.

Then... she finds out that Mr. Smart pants, got another girl pregnant, within 30 days of her. He abandoned her also...

So, think ahead of your feelings, or your entrapment. Think long and strong about the consequences... read other posts and see how others are feeling, in that place. See what the responsibilites are, and how the guilt feels. Hard thing about this, is, you can't know exactly how it feels, until you have been there, done that. But, you can see if you put some effort into it. And it is well worth the effort. The most important thing in the whole world that you have to give, is yourself. And you had better be sure, it is to
Mr. Right. If he is not willing to wait for you, until things are right, then, he is not.. the right one.. dump him, before he dumps you...

Value yourself enough to be true to you. I have been in contact lately with a 16 year old, preachers daughter, who was persuaded... by the young man manipulating her emotions, playing on them, telling her how much he loved her, and if she really... loved him, then she would let him have his way... Same arguement, that Satan gave to Adam and Eve in the garden, If God really loved you, he would not withhold any good thing from you. He was planting doubt, and playing on manipulation. They fell for it. So do millions of others, daily. So did the preachers daughter.

Then... Mr. Smart pants, abandoned her... the minute that she found out the consequences of her actions... pregnancy... at 16... still a baby herself... now, fixing to have to take on the responsibilites of mother hood. Not a small task.

Then... she finds out that Mr. Smart pants, got another girl pregnant, within 30 days of her. He abandoned her also...

So, think ahead of your feelings, or your entrapment. Think long and strong about the consequences... read other posts and see how others are feeling, in that place. See what the responsibilites are, and how the guilt feels. Hard thing about this, is, you can't know exactly how it feels, until you have been there, done that. But, you can see if you put some effort into it. And it is well worth the effort. The most important thing in the whole world that you have to give, is yourself. And you had better be sure, it is to
Mr. Right. If he is not willing to wait for you, until things are right, then, he is not.. the right one.. dump him, before he dumps you...

well I dont know about till you're marryed but hey
but I think it would be ok when you're with a guy for a long time lets say close to a year and he hasnt pushed for haveing sex but if he has and it still waits then ok stick with him because my girlfriend told me to wait till shes 16 im 15 shes 13 going on 14 and I can wait both virgins but if you're with a guy for a year and he didnt mind waiting and didnt ask for it much then 5 months later it wouldnt be bad if you gave it but waiting till you're 30 thats like the 40 year old virgin but 30 damn that would be hard that
and you can just take it up the @$$ that dont make you a none virgin lol so that might help but still wait at max a year and if the guy waits for you then im sure hes a keeper
so yeah hope I helped and what thay said GOOD LUCK

IT VERY HARD BELIEVE ME I'M THE SAME WAY I HAVE HAD A LOT OF OFFERS BUT I SAID NO SO TRY TO STAY STRONG AND GOOD LUCK WITH SAVING SEX INTIL MARRIAGE