How can I spice things up, when having s*x for the first few times?

I now have a boyfriend that I'd like to start having a s*xual relationship with. He's not a virgin, and I know I'm not that experienced. My question is, the first time him and I are having s*x, what are some things I should be doing before, while, and after it's happening? Give me details on the whole sha-bam. I know that he should be on top the first few times I'm having s*x, but I want to know how I can spice things up and make him even more turned on. I know that communication is good with him, too.. in which I plan on doing after we've had s*x for the first time.

Those things come naturally. There isn't really a how-to-guide for this. Over time you learn what turns him on. You gotta experiment. My question to you is...are you doing this because you really want ti or because you feel pressured? Think about it.

No, I'm the one who's been wanting to come on to him about this. He hasn't been pressuring me at all, nor has anyone else been. I know what I can somewhat do, I'm just looking for what other people do, too.

I hate how I'm looking for advice, and nobody ever really gives it. lol.

start making out at first.give him oral if its okay with you, of course.that really turns a guy on.play with his pe*is and let him play withyou if you want.as for the actual s*x part, thats for you two to decide.while youre doing it, let your hormones take over ;D

hope this helped =]

just relax when your doing it
and most of all have fun because if your comfortable with him you should be able to havbe fun and not be worried about making a mistake

Well to start off, make sure you are both in the mood, and ready. Have a talk with him while your doing it, ask him to be gentle for the first inserts, if you havent had s*x that often, or never. Once you two start doing it, just to turn him on, make moans, the better it feels, the louder you moan. That forsure turns a guy on, most guys like girls who express themselves while having s*x. If it does not feel good enough to moan, rub your cl*it, that should make it good. And when you give him a job, just incase you didnt know, spit the cu*m on his pen15 and jack it off a couple of times and keep going, that way it feels good for him, and you dont have to swallow. The rest, just take into fantasy, and take over. Because all those stuff I told you are the main things, I hoped they helped.

xoxo