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How can I not let myself be used?

me with no makeup Asked by foxxy18146 3 months ago, 16 answers.
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I always end up getting used. Im only 16, I've done sexual things with like four guys but Ill do anything if a guys asks. All my relationships have been purely physical, and I really can't say no. I've even cheated on a boyfriend I was dating for 7 months. How can I learn to control myself?

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Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Apr 12, 2008, 11:02PM
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It depends on how you put yourself out there. Its so easy to get a bad girl reputation at your age and people talk. If there are rumours going around that you are easy or something then guys will take advantage of that fact.

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Answered by watsup on Apr 12, 2008, 09:27PM
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JUST THINK BIFORE you DO I TI GUESSS !!!???!!!???

Out by the lake! Answered by djwager on Apr 12, 2008, 09:32PM
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When the opportunity arises, think to yourself what might happen to you or who you might hurt in the process including yourself.

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They say, time heals everything, but I'm still waiting </3 Answered by stephanief987 on Apr 12, 2008, 09:32PM
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Learn when enough is enough.
You need to stop doing things with guys until you are with someone for a long time.Nobody can force you to say 'no' to guys, you have to stand up for yourself and realize what you are doing. I highly suggest that you go and get STD tested since you have been with that many different guys. If you keep going like this you are going to have a really bad reputation and you will regret it all. Think about your future.

me with no makeup Answered by foxxy18146 on Apr 12, 2008, 09:36PM
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yeah, I do have a bad rep, it sucks. I got std tested, im clean luckily. theres not an std problem at my school even though I live in a bubble.

Answered by not_your_puppet on Apr 12, 2008, 10:01PM
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hey just chill and change the way you to bad things like that. You should stop before it can get worse.
Trust me it will to worse if you keep doing this.
take care

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Apr 12, 2008, 11:07PM
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stop being a SLUT!!!

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16 Answered by bbbb on Apr 12, 2008, 11:10PM
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I think by chemically reducing estrogen. I know that if A man gets his balls chopped off he loses his sexual desire but I am not sure about women.

They say, time heals everything, but I'm still waiting </3 Answered by stephanief987 on Apr 13, 2008, 12:21AM
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**heres not an std problem at my school**
There could be a lot of people with STD's at your school, you wouldn't know. They aren't going to put it on the announcements that someone has an STD, lol. STD's are more popular then you think.

bye Answered by axis on Apr 13, 2008, 12:45AM
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foxxy18146, you are just enjoying your capabilities of a true hot girl...
dont worry true love will come, and it will come without knowing it..
just use protection... think many times... and give all you have to a guy you think you can spend the rest of your life... hope it helped goodluck!

me with no makeup Answered by foxxy18146 on Apr 13, 2008, 09:51AM
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lol thts true stephanief987
well, thanks everyone its helped
and yeah it doesnt bother me that people call me a slut
because if people talk, it must mean im interesting

pretty pink dress <3 (studio pic) Answered by butterfly_kiss3z on Apr 13, 2008, 12:01PM
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ummm...my best advice would be to change the way you act , by being around with different people!! - try hanging around with friends that'll lift you up!! by making you feel like you're worth something!! hey, you're 16!! life is meant to be sweet at that age!! IT IS NOT MEANT TO BE WASTED ON GUYS THAT USE YOU!! learn to know when enough is ENOUGH!! and have your friends be your guide to stop you!! join clubs or sports...or something you like... change your attuide!!...and while you're checking out some guys... go for the good boy type... get to know him first as friends and restrain yourself from anything physical!!... hope I helped!! <3

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favorite girl Answered by piker187 on Apr 14, 2008, 02:00PM
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It does suck that you have a bad rep because thats going ot attract the type of guys you don't want, so you have your work cut out for ya. A major thing to know is that good guys will never pressure you for anything. If they start to pressure you know they are just trying to get in. You remind me so much of this girl I hooked up with when she had a boyfriend. Not a bad girl at all, beautiful like you but she couldn't say no either. I din't take advantage of that I actually loved the girl. But you must find a way to turn guys down, seriously don't feel afraid, guilty, anything like that. Just say no, otherwise you'll end up like her, pregnent and the daddy took off. And I don't even want to say how many people she's been with, but at the age of 16 she had only been with 3 or 4, I remember that. So many people used her, its just sad

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Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Apr 16, 2008, 09:40AM
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AVOID FUNADVICE CREEPERS IM TELLING you DONT TALK TO THEM

me with no makeup Answered by foxxy18146 on Apr 16, 2008, 11:24AM
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lol thanks franky

dats me Answered by mostafa_vampire on Apr 17, 2008, 05:01PM
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u should to know what you want and be strong in your character
dont smile all the time , that will make week people think wrong about you.

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